Different strokes for different folks. Some men prefer women with more curves than others. In fact, A lot of men prefer curvy women. Some women prefer slender guys, and some prefer big guys (and that term covers a lot of ground). To say fat women and men are gross is just your opinion. Others may disagree.
To a point, I understand. But that’s not what I’m talking about.
There’s curvy and then there’s walrus-sized toilet destroyers.
𝘈 𝘭𝘰𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘮𝘦𝘯 𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘧𝘦𝘳 𝘤𝘶𝘳𝘷𝘺 𝘸𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘯.
If some of those curves are concave, she’s curvy. If all of those curves are convex, she’s morbidly obese.
I’ve also found that the underwear test is reasonable, and fairly reliable. If her underwear is bigger than mine, it’s a no go. If her underwear is the same size, it can be convenient for those times where I didn’t get to everything on laundry day, or those times I just want to feel sexy.
It's usually the fat gals who like skinny guys. I know. My skinny butt has been ogled by many a fat girl. I'm almost 58 and still have some 20-something fat slobby girl flirting with me. She works at the convenient store and always has greasy lips from the food she was just chowing down. Greasy hair too.
The petite girls, my preference, want a huge guy. They want nothing to do with me. Every guy and most women being bigger, it's survival instinct for them.
I ended up marrying a blonde haired, blue eyed white girl who wasn't fat but was built like a black girl. Baby got back. Seen many a black dude almost walk into a wall etc checking her out.