Posted on 10/09/2023 4:03:07 AM PDT by Varsity Flight
https://ideapod.com/what-attracts-married-woman-to-another-man/
Lists 14 Reasons
Nothing much on bearing through Man's and hers adversities no matter the "what's"
I think I'll go find a list of truly why dog 🐕 s (🐈 cats) and pets are a Man's Best Friend.
Pets, forever faithful through adversity.
‘I still see the want to in your eyes’
One of many songs along this line
I glanced at the list. It seems like it all boils down to “I deserve more”. How charming.
These are 14 reasons that the husband or maybe both the husband and the wife can work on.
There are reasons that the wife can work on.
Women as well as men are attracted to variety in sex, to the game of sex, and to illicit sex.
Maybe the percentages are different. But to think problems in the marriage are always his fault, is sexist.
I could give you 14 reasons why you should not of posted this garbage, 14 reasons other reasons, 14 why not to read it, and 14 reasons why married men are attracted to other women, but I dont want to waste any of others time.
Please give me back my 14 minutes. I want my time back.
Thank you.
“Princess” Complex
Research indicates most women who sleep around were sexually abused as children or teens.
You can come home at 0300 drunk with pants peed in, and your dog loves you and is excited to see you.
Everything listed is an excuse, nothing more. Marriage takes two and compromise. I consider myself an expert having been married only once for 50 years this past Friday.
“Notice the physical abuses and addictions by the husband is listed towards the bottom of the list.”
To me, a husband’s abuses (both physical AND verbal/emotional) should be at the top of the list.
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Congrats to you and the missus on the fiftieth! That’s wonderful.
How about listing 14 reasons why unattached women are attracted to already-married men?
This is a real phenomenon, and has amused me to no end ever since I began slipping on a wedding band before going out for the evening of casual socializing.
Single guys looking to improve their odds should be made more aware of this curious phenomenon.
Regards,
Want there a Seinfeld episode that touched on this subject?
Congrats on the 50th!
My wife and I started dating our Freshman year in high school and married for 36 years. We have four daughters; two of them have already had a divorce. Both of them said something along the lines that their marriages weren’t “perfect” like ours. The wife and I both laughed - out loud!
Just because we didn’t let them see us working on our marriage, doesn’t mean it was a perfect walk. There have been ups and downs, lost paths, crossed paths, and so many different challenges, I don’t think we could actually remember all of them to explain how NOT “perfect” any marriage really is!
The only thing “perfect” in our marriage is our willingness to work through the adversities we cross (and even that sometimes takes some goading from one or the other to get moving in the right direction)!
Again, congrats on the 50! I pray you have many more years together!
And sometimes those husbands are oblivious to this vulnerability.
All of a sudden the attention of other women starts to have a powerful effect on them. They may notice, they may not.
Oddly enough, the "other" women may unconsciously pick up on this vulnerability.
It's a very dangerous time for a marriage.
Or why married men seem to always cheat with women butt-ugly compared to their wives?!?
You see so many on the news where they killed their wife or their wife went missing and then you find out he had a mistress...and 98+% of the time, she is uglier than homemade sin!
“Marriage takes two and compromise”
That’s all rainbows and unicorns, but when a guy is bigger and stronger than his spouse, and uses her as a dog to kick when he has no impulse control, how do you compromise?
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