Guilt shaming men into dating and marriage is not going to work.
No man wants to raise another mans kid. These women want the resources of another man who “mans up” - please, b - and will be cuckolded to raise another mans kid. Who he cant discipline as he sees fit. Whos real bio dad may be something he must deal with. And the woman already has kids and most often puts her kid first and doesn’t want more kids, so the new wallet, err guy, forfeits his ability to have kids.
What a fantastic fricking deal for men.
Yeah.
“No man wants to raise another mans kid.”
Probably that’s the majority. But I’ve seen a few situations where the stepfather is a better parent than the bio mother, and who considers her kids his, 100%.
Interestingly, that scenario pops up in true crime relationships I’ve seen and read about. Stepdad jumps in and rescues the kids he loves from their own sociopathic mother. Real life is strange.
Spot on. Seen it. Almost took the bait once myself, but came to my senses. Felt horrible about having been yet another stranger passing through the life of an impressionable four-year old boy (who was a great little kid). Never again.