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I was fatally attracted to men with good looks, super-confidence and status - but they didn't make me happy: Dating coach tells single women it is time to ditch the addiction to alpha males and bag a beta if they want long-term love
UK Daily Mail ^ | March 19, 2023 | Mairi Macleod

Posted on 03/20/2023 6:17:43 AM PDT by C19fan

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To: central_va

Robert deniro wears platform shoes lol


61 posted on 03/20/2023 6:52:35 AM PDT by Bob434
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To: SamAdams76

Um- Helen Thomas?


62 posted on 03/20/2023 6:54:07 AM PDT by Bob434
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To: Bob434
Robert deniro wears platform shoes lol

It is a prop like all of the stuff on a hollywood set. A prop, literally. I am sure when on break he takes that stuff off.

63 posted on 03/20/2023 6:54:35 AM PDT by central_va (I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn...)
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To: Boardwalk
My mother used to tell me to go for a nerd! I don’t want a nerd. Lol

A working definition of "alpha male": a guy who is seen as desirable by attractive women, who are willing to have sex with him EVEN KNOWING that he is unlikely to commit. A corollary of this is that he knows that he can replace his current woman if she ever gives him an ultimatum of "marry or else".

A woman who insists on only going after Alpha males will wind up in her 30s used up and bitter.

A working definition of "beta male": a guy who a woman will only look at because she has decided she needs a committed provider, and will only have sex with in order to secure commitment. A corollary of this, is that once she feels secure in the marriage, she will lose interest in sex.

64 posted on 03/20/2023 6:56:37 AM PDT by PapaBear3625 (We live in a time where intelligent people are being silenced so stupid people won’t be offended)
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To: C19fan

I’m glad I’m not growing up today, it’s a mess.

Between social media, corporate media, Hollyweird, academia, etc. mean and women have been pumped full of absolute garbage and now the consequences can be seen.

(Messages for girls)
* Girl power! You can do anything!
* “You _deserve_ it (girl)”
* Have kids later on, focus on your career
* Don’t slut shame, have your ‘hoe’ period
* Your body count doesn’t matter
* Obesity is beautiful
* Abortion is just ‘killing a clump of cells’
* Trans-women are women!
* Men (trans-males) can have babies

(Messages for boys)
* Toxic masculinity must be eliminated
* Shut up you white male
* You are racist and part of white supremacy
* Feel guilty for your ancestors actions
* You shouldn’t care about education
* Support all the messaging for girls
* Submit to feminists
* You’re probably gay or trans

Resulting with:
* Every girl thinks they’re “a 10”, when they’re a 6, or a 3 without makeup
* Girls having no problem with hookup culture
* Every girl thinking that they’re the one that should get the rich, 6’2”, handsome, exciting, guy
* So 90% of the girls go after the 5% of men
* The 5% of men have a great time and have no reason to commit to any one of them
* The 5% of men ultimately find the 28+ year olds “too old” and turn their attention to the next batch of 20 somethings
* Used up girls realizing they may want kids and the clock is running
* They realize they actually need a man
* See that the ‘good ones’ have been snatched up - reality hits hard
* Many men giving up, going their own way, not interested in modern women
* Many men going to other cultures to find feminine women
* The birth rate lowering
* The most NARCISSISTIC women imaginable
* The most weak men imaginable
* Christianity becoming weaker
* Can’t answer “what is a woman?” without saying “somebody that identifies with being a woman”, still without being able to say what that is
* The opinion that not wanting to date a trans-woman is transphobic, males should have no problem dating them

There’s a few YouTube channels of men talking to groups of young women. It’s astonishing what they believe and they’re so full of themselves and their opinions - without realize they go up against natural laws. When presented with facts and reason they either get confused or become very defensive, walking out. All this messaging is evil, look at the misery it causes, all anti-God (especially the trans crap) - sown by the Lord of Chaos.

I just took a new job, one with many younger engineers that have only been out of school for a few years - realizing that they’re completely different bunch.


65 posted on 03/20/2023 6:56:51 AM PDT by fuzzylogic (welfare state = sharing of poor moral choices among everybody)
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To: Louis Foxwell
I was, of course, speaking as an alpha high value man.

So you're saying that your advice is actionable and useful to only about 2.5% of the male dating population.

Thanks!

In that same spirit: When an out-of-work factory worker asks me for some financial advice, I'm going to recommend that he acquire a controlling interest in TESLA stock.

Regards,

66 posted on 03/20/2023 6:58:18 AM PDT by alexander_busek (Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.)
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To: Louis Foxwell

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ql4p7ipnFWE


67 posted on 03/20/2023 6:59:28 AM PDT by E. Pluribus Unum (The worst thing about censorship is ████ █ ██████ ███████ ███ ██████ ██ ████████. FJB.)
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To: alexander_busek

Sometime I joke, “yeah, most people are below average intelligence”. You won’t believe how many reply, “YEAH too right!”. All the girls rate themselves a “10” too, lol.


68 posted on 03/20/2023 6:59:30 AM PDT by fuzzylogic (welfare state = sharing of poor moral choices among everybody)
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To: C19fan
Based on “right swipes” of online dating apps, men find a much larger percentage of women attractive than woman find men attractive.

Women want "Mr. Right", with only men in the top 10% of desirability being in that category, and are much more likely to stay home than to go out with someone who they don't regard as exciting.

Men are also looking for "Miss Right", but are much more likely to settle for "Miss Good Enough For Tonight" rather than stay home.

69 posted on 03/20/2023 7:00:31 AM PDT by PapaBear3625 (We live in a time where intelligent people are being silenced so stupid people won’t be offended)
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To: fuzzylogic
Your remarks are spot-on!

I just took a new job, one with many younger engineers that have only been out of school for a few years - realizing that they’re completely different bunch.

In what way different? What experiences are they making? Do tell!

Regards,

70 posted on 03/20/2023 7:00:46 AM PDT by alexander_busek (Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.)
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71 posted on 03/20/2023 7:00:49 AM PDT by one guy in new jersey
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To: central_va
Advice is good for men as well. That 10 you crave is not wife material.

Mine, my ex that is, was a runway model - but at least she had curves in the right places - not a stick figure.

It was still worth it. In the olden days she would have been considered an E ticket at Disneyworld. Hell of a ride. Won't ever forget it.

72 posted on 03/20/2023 7:01:48 AM PDT by Sirius Lee (They intend to murder us. Prep if you want to live and live like you are prepping for eternal life)
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To: one guy in new jersey

That’s available now.


73 posted on 03/20/2023 7:02:34 AM PDT by Jonty30 (It is not how many that go into Mexico that counts. It is how many that return from Mexico.)
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To: Bob434
Helen Thomas obviously let herself go.

Like all women, she once had the potential to be attractive. This is her as a younger woman. Maybe she was never meant to be a beauty queen but this is more than acceptable...that necklace though, about 5 sizes too large? Well, she eventually grew into it.


74 posted on 03/20/2023 7:02:53 AM PDT by SamAdams76 (4,942,927 Truth | 87,539,833 Twitter)
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To: Bob434
They can’t control alphas who refuse to jump everytime she yells jump,

An Alpha, by definition, is somebody who can easily replace her if she stops meeting his desires, and has little need to exert himself in order to fulfill her desires.

An ideal match is somebody who has incentive to work at keeping her happy.

75 posted on 03/20/2023 7:04:25 AM PDT by PapaBear3625 (We live in a time where intelligent people are being silenced so stupid people won’t be offended)
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To: larrytown

[[All I see is “me”, “my needs and wants”, etc.]]

Yep, that was the case with my friend in previous post. His wife wouldn’t accept that any bit of the problem In The marriage was her fault, all she could say was that her “need” was not met, and by need, I mean need to control.

[[No one without a servants heart is going to find any benefit or fulfillment in a long-term relationship.]]

Well said- both need to have a servant’s heart, and both need to appreciate the fact that the other wants to serve in their own way, and not try to mold the other person to,the point where they begin to resent being “commanded” to act a certain way or else. . It really is selfishness when it comes to that point


76 posted on 03/20/2023 7:05:04 AM PDT by Bob434
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To: central_va
Prostitution was never sigmatized like it is now. Pre 1920’s visiting a prostitiute was on the low down but not look at as some kind of weird aberrant behavior.

I repeat: Do you reside in Salt Lake City, or somethin'?!

But more importantly: Just how old are you, anyway?

Regards,

77 posted on 03/20/2023 7:06:47 AM PDT by alexander_busek (Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.)
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To: Sirius Lee
It was still worth it. In the olden days she would have been considered an E ticket at Disneyworld. Hell of a ride. Won't ever forget it.

I'll be sure to drop a quarter into your tin can when I next past by you, sitting there at the curb!

Regards,

78 posted on 03/20/2023 7:08:36 AM PDT by alexander_busek (Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.)
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To: Kharis13

Amen to that.


79 posted on 03/20/2023 7:09:20 AM PDT by Allegra
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To: bk1000

Lol! Exactly


80 posted on 03/20/2023 7:09:46 AM PDT by AuntB (Trump is our Ben Franklin - Brilliant, Boisterous, Brave and ALL AMERICAN!)
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