The key to my approach is that you don’t wait for women to pick you.
You pick what you want and you go after it.
Their first reaction, as you say, will be rejection.
That is step one.
That is where the sense of humor and fun and people skills are needed to get her laughing and keep her attention.
Of course that is best done in person—so social circles are the way to go to make it work.
The secret of life is to be fully aware of all the difficulties, and then plot a strategy to overcome them.
Men can date way above where they “should” if they are strategic about it.
I don’t disagree with you on your points in terms of making males more attractive than society perceives them. I agree that males can learn to punch above their weight, if they work on themselves to become the best that they can be.
However, where I cannot agree with you is that we aren’t in a society where you are going to be given the time to show your better qualities. If you don’t have the desired qualities upfront, you’re going to be cock-blocked before you have a chance to even say a word.
The situation only starts to equalize when both men and women are in their thirties. Men have the income and status and women come to realize that the best men were just using them and they should seek somebody more down to earth.
I agree with this approach👍
What i have seen in my hometown paper
personal ads are the same old guys.
They are either super sportsmen or writing the next great american novel.
I study these carefully , too.
Honestly, I would never drop a line to these guys in my age bracket because ive come to the concludion that meeting up would be akin to a job interview with resume in hand.
smdh ...