Posted on 12/01/2022 11:09:11 AM PST by Brookhaven
During my "dating career" as a man living in North America I couldn't help noticing that women often have unrealistic expectations. They see themselves being passed around by those high quality men they feel entitled for, failing to realize those few men are in high demand. Time passes, options shrink, their standards don't change and they wonder why they are still single.
The stats can prove there're not enough high quality men for every girl out there.
The Female Delusion Calculator is a tool that can help women discern what is realistic from what is highly unlikely.
(Excerpt) Read more at igotstandardsbro.com ...
• age 35-50
• not married
• any race
• at least 6’ tall
• not obese
• earning at least $100,000 per year
If that’s the best men have to offer, then they shouldn’t complain they don’t get the perfect wife, either.
“Where does a widowed pastor find a woman who is all the things a Christian woman ought to be, a unicorn on the chart, as his wife was?”
My mom is available — an awesome preacher’s wife for 50 years, and now is widowed. Of course, she IS 98. Is that a problem? LOL! (She still will not miss church!!)
Ping!!!
Wow ... According to that, if I were single I would be VERY HIGHLY ‘in demand’.
Never thought of myself as particularly ‘special’ ...
The technical term is “Brazilians”!
A woman’s prime value in the dating marketplace is between the ages of 18 and 28 (some might argue it’s between 22 and 28).
Many women during this span gravitate to the party life with plenty of casual sex, leaving for later the important task of settling down to a meaningful life.
When a woman eventually decides to become serious, (envision Marisa Tomei stomping her foot), the men who meet her criteria are no longer interested in her.
Great for you, but shallow women attract shallow men so yes they are as I described
That depends on size -- the size of their portfolios.
A male version would also be fun. I assume it would include things like breast size, how many kids in tow, Dimensions in general, etc. 🤣
I never understood the fascination with oversized breasts. Don't men understand the effects of gravity over time?
(Disclosure: I am a leg man.)
And therein lies the HUGE problem in this whole male/female mess we are in.
Men, and women, see each other too much as a commodity, something to be bought and sold or traded in on if it doesn’t work out the way they expect. It’s dehumanizing and selfish and shallow.
It’s all about what the individual can get out of someone else and what that someone else can do for them.
Until both sides can see relationships as something besides a self-serving business contract, these problems will continue to exist.
(During my “dating career” as a man living in North America I couldn’t help noticing that women often have unrealistic expectations)
That’s for certain. Expects the impossible and severely disappointed when reality keeps on coming.
(The probability a guy meets your standards is: 0.37%)
The math will be too confusing for a few.
Basically, a single man who’s into Jesus for real has his pick of chicks.
That’s really true even with the general population. It really is a man’s world in that sense. The problem is that doesn’t take into account the ratio of DESIRABLE women. And US culture kinda ruins a lot of them. Then again, it messes up males as well.
(Many women during this span gravitate to the party life with plenty of casual sex)
My girlfriend dumped me for the frat boys at college. Shockingly, none of them wanted her after college. Duh
Party life was her calling.
She wanted to come back but I no longer trusted her.
So I got one dating decision correct. LOL 🤣
Just as an aside, I married a woman who weighed 115 pounds and was a B cup.
37 years and two kids later she is neither anymore. But I love her more.
(I am 40 pounds lighter than when we married. But I have no hair.)
“I couldn’t help noticing that women often have unrealistic expectations.”
The stats:
age 35-50
not married
any race
at least 6’ tall
not obese
earning at least $100,000 per year
Nothing about kindness, impulse control, listening, keeping promises, coping skills, humor, etc. — the things that REALLY count.
Hey that’s where I am.
BUT, I have no money, so.....
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