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Dating Is Getting Tougher In The U.S.
Newsy ^ | October 13, 2022

Posted on 10/20/2022 2:54:23 PM PDT by nickcarraway

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To: Aquamarine

I used to work in a conveniene store full-time.
On Fri and Sat nights, clubbing women would come into my store and talk in front of me as if I wasn’t there while they were making their purchases.

Believe me when I say this, no half-decent man would have the type of conversation that these women had. They were forthright in talking about which men were well-endowed and which mean weren’t as well as rating the skills that each men possessed and everything.

Your brothers, I can almost guarantee you, were choir boys in comparison to the women who were coming into my store and the coversations they had.

Maybe the older women showed discretion amongst themselves, but the younger ones don’t.


81 posted on 10/20/2022 5:36:36 PM PDT by Jonty30 (Some men want to see the world burn. It is they that want you to buy an electric car.)
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To: Jonty30
Those are the type of women that wind up alone never understanding why.

I didn't overhear my brothers talk that way only their friends.

82 posted on 10/20/2022 5:43:00 PM PDT by Aquamarine
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To: Huskrrrr

“What’s your sign?”

$$$$$$$$$$$$$!


83 posted on 10/20/2022 5:44:15 PM PDT by ApplegateRanch (Love me, love my guns!)
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To: Aquamarine

Unless the man is a porn actor, he’s going to be a choir boy in his conversations in comparison with what I heard. Even your brother’s friends.

It’s gross and sad that, for the sake of sexual pleasure, men and woman are making themselves unsuitable as mates.


84 posted on 10/20/2022 5:44:50 PM PDT by Jonty30 (Some men want to see the world burn. It is they that want you to buy an electric car.)
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To: nickcarraway
80% of the women are going after 10% of the men.

If you are in the top 10%, then you are a high value male.

But if you are the remaining 90%, even if you are married, your wife thinks she can do better than you because you are not a high value male.

In other words, 80% of the women think they can end up with a Prince Harry.

That's not realistic. But they don't know that.

85 posted on 10/20/2022 5:49:02 PM PDT by MinorityRepublican
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To: alternatives?
They also want someone over six foot with a good income and higher education (no plumbers).

That shows how dumb these particular women are. Plumbers and other tradesmen can provide very good incomes without the burden of college debt.

86 posted on 10/20/2022 5:55:14 PM PDT by Tolerance Sucks Rocks (FBI out of Florida!)
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To: Jonty30

It’s a form of self abuse. There is a book with instructions that tends to be disregarded these days.


87 posted on 10/20/2022 5:56:40 PM PDT by Aquamarine
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To: nickcarraway

Before the internet, Clemenza could not get a woman even if he paid. After the internet, the babes just came. Some of us do better with the web than the bar scene if one is sociophobic. ;)


88 posted on 10/20/2022 5:58:57 PM PDT by Clemenza
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To: nickcarraway

trouble finding someone who meets their expectations at 43%.


and the solution is.......................

https://duckduckgo.com/?q=lower+expectations+snl&iax=videos&ia=videos&iai=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fwatch%3Fv%3D3flv5nWZgII


89 posted on 10/20/2022 6:00:37 PM PDT by PeterPrinciple (Thinking Caps are no longer being issued but there must be a warehouse full of them somewhere.)
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To: Jonty30

“ I don’t take the position that a woman will turn on you, if you are treating them well”

They will if they stop taking their meds.


90 posted on 10/20/2022 6:00:47 PM PDT by NWFree (Somebody has to say it 🤪)
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To: Crusher138
I would say that makes a bit of a difference.

It does, but you still have to be careful. I know one lovely young woman who was courted by a fellow who had ticked all the right boxes, and was already an accomplished academic.

He spent a lot of time an effort (long travel) trying to set her up where he could seduce her. Later she found out that he left a string of broken hearts whom he had violated, and others afterward. It seemed like he had a thing for innocent young women.
91 posted on 10/20/2022 6:04:52 PM PDT by Dr. Sivana (What was 35% of the Rep. Party is now 85%. And it’s too late to turn back—Mac Stipanovich )
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To: NWFree

lol...like it


92 posted on 10/20/2022 6:11:15 PM PDT by piroque ("When the SHTF I'm gonna hunker down until all those idiots kill each other. " )
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To: Secret Agent Man
Women have outrageous laundry lists of must and must not haves. And their lists get longer as they get older.

The laundry list is for men who don't excite them. If a guy comes along who she regards as "hot", the list goes out the window.

Unfortunately for her, the hot guy has other women competing for him, so he will stay with her for as long as she stays focused on pleasing him, then move on. For the top 1-5% of men, there ARE "many fish in the sea".

Some of the highly desirable men try to date highly desirable women. Others see dating a succession of second tier women who will make an effort to please him is a better strategy.

93 posted on 10/20/2022 7:26:06 PM PDT by SauronOfMordor (A Leftist can't enjoy life unless they are controlling, hurting, or destroying others)
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To: Jonty30

I heartily agree with you


94 posted on 10/20/2022 7:28:51 PM PDT by SauronOfMordor (A Leftist can't enjoy life unless they are controlling, hurting, or destroying others)
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To: SauronOfMordor

Not true. There is no list for guys who dont excite them. These guys ars the 80% of men not even visible to them. The women with the huge lists are not settling for these guys, if they dont have whats on the list, they aren’t even considered.

This is why these women who “know their worth” and therefore “refuse to settle” wind up alone with cats. If they can’t have what they feel entitled to, they would rather stay alone with cats than lower their standards and compromise.

Only men must be the ones that compromise.


95 posted on 10/20/2022 8:08:51 PM PDT by Secret Agent Man (Gone Galt; not averse to Going Bronson.)
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To: Secret Agent Man

Bitter much? Rash generalizations aren’t taken seriously... FWIW


96 posted on 10/20/2022 8:14:55 PM PDT by MayflowerMadam
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To: Jonty30

” think women knew how to engage with cat-callers back then “

We did. We smiled, waved, and walked on by. It was flattering.


97 posted on 10/20/2022 8:24:28 PM PDT by MayflowerMadam
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To: MayflowerMadam

Yours is the typical insult shame response. Lol.


98 posted on 10/20/2022 8:29:32 PM PDT by Secret Agent Man (Gone Galt; not averse to Going Bronson.)
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To: IrishBrigade

A distinct possibility. If a kid insists “I can do it by myself!”, sometimes a father will let him fail. Then the kid realizes he needs to trust his father.

I’ve told my boys on a few occasions how to handle something, but let them make the decisions. They quickly found out I knew what I was doing. God treats us the same way sometimes.


99 posted on 10/20/2022 8:42:13 PM PDT by HeadOn (Love God. Lead your family. Be a man.)
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To: TalBlack
I’m guessing that what these women consider “harassment” would not have even remotely been considered harassment by earlier generations.

My wife and I have been married for over 40.5 years and just celebrated the 44th anniversary of the day we met. I'll be in my office when she will start ranting about how women complain of harassment for little things that were never, and should never, be considered as harassment. Even our 34 year old daughter cannot fathom how these complaints happen.

I think much of this is feminism teaching them to be psychologically dominant in a relationship, which is why men stay away from them.

100 posted on 10/20/2022 8:42:57 PM PDT by OldMissileer (Atlas, Titan, Minuteman, PK. Winners of the Cold War)
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