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Life Moves Pretty Fast: Why Gen-X “Got it” Before the Rest of You
GoodMenProject ^ | 10.16.2022 | Kara

Posted on 10/19/2022 4:39:50 PM PDT by libh8er

Look, we have heard all the jokes. We know how you talk about us. And now you are saying there might never be a Gen-X President (as if Donald Trump did some sort of credit to his generation in that role).

The thing is, WE DON’T CARE. You know this about us. Because we get it, and you likely don’t.

We have been described as some kind of neglected middle child between boomers and the Millennials, but we are not your mother’s Jan Brady (or our own, frankly). We were the first generation to experience a high volume of moms working outside the home, divorced parents and friends coming safely out of the closet. We were the last generation to have a technology free childhood and to learn patience waiting for Saturday morning cartoons or a favorite song to come on the radio.

We were the first generation to write papers on computers and the last generation to use typewriters. We were the last generation to know a time when a missed call was a missed call and the first generation to play video games. We were the last generation who spent a largely unsupervised childhood on dangerous playground equipment.

We were the first generation to grow up with the diversity of Sesame Street, the lessons in community from Mr. Roger’s Neighborhood and the brilliant bonkers of Electric Company.

We GET IT.

Our unique positioning in history gave us a perspective that some of you are still struggling to understand—and this spans ALL generations, not just those older than us. Because some of you who are younger than we are just don’t get what it was like BEFORE we came along and some of you who are older than us refuse to process new information, So let me break this down for you—we did a LOT of heavy lifting so you all didn’t have to.

And we’re exhausted.

You know that statistic that people love to quote (even if it is no longer true?) You know, the one about 50% of marriages ending in divorce? Yeah, well—that was OUR parents. So we “got” that marriage was a social construct and not a holy mandate WAY before the rest of you.

The first openly gay TV character appeared during our childhoods. Ditto for the first openly gay elected official. AIDS was first detected as we were entering our adolescence and sexual awakening years–we were the first generation to become sexually active with this specter over our heads.

“Roots” was first aired during our childhoods. We were the generation that grew up watching “The Jeffersons”, “What’s Happening”, “Good Times” and “Sanford and Son”. We were the first kids who grew up in a country with civil rights laws.

We were the first generation to grow up back when Roe v. Wade was the law of the land. Not that we took it for granted; we marched (yes, I personally) in D.C. in 1989 in what was at the time one of the largest political rallies in U.S. history..

We were the first generation that grew up knowing Mom could bring home the bacon.

We were the MTV Generation; our teenage years were flooded with images of gender fluid icons like Bowie, Boy George, Grace Jones and Prince.

We were the first generation that saw men and women enrolled in college in equal numbers.

We were the first generation to be taught about environmental sustainability from a young age – that’s recycling and land management to global warming. We are the generation MOST likely to consider sustainability factors when investing.

WE. GET. IT.

Our childhoods featured the end of the Vietnam War, the Watergate scandal, Three Mile Island meltdown, the Jonestown massacre, and Iranian hostage crisis. We waited in the backseat of the car for hours just to get gas.

Our teenage years saw the Challenger disaster, Exxon Valdez oil tanker spill, and the Fall of the Berlin Wall.

As young adults, we were in the cross hairs of Operation Desert Storm.

When 9/11 happened, we were most of the boots on the ground. We were many of the victims.

We were the last generation to graduate from high school before the escalation of school shootings began and the first generation to send our children into schools with this threat hanging over us as the norm.

Trickle Down Economics (the other big lie) destroyed the middle class before we even had our sea legs underneath us. We are the first American generation who have not improved on our parent’s financial situation because wages stagnated while inflation skyrocketed. We were the last generation to get an affordable college education.

Gen-X broke new ground in music (RIP Kurt Cobain and Tupac Shakur), comedy (Chris Rock, Dave Chappelle, Tina Fey, Jon Stewart, Mindy Kaling), innovation (Elon Musk, Sergey Brin & Larry Page, ), athletics (Tiger Woods, Kobe Bryant, Venus and Serena Williams), journalism (Julian Assange, Anderson Cooper), film and TV (Joss Whedon, Kevin Williamson, JJ Abrams, Wes Anderson) and where would we be without John Cusack, Julia Roberts, Robert Downey Jr, Christian Bale, Will Smith, Ryan Gosling, Christina Ricci, Uma Thurman, Drew Barrymore and literally 100s of others of what will most likely be the final generation of true Hollywood stars.

And the children we have raised are groundbreakers–rejecting gender stereotypes, patriarchal rule and systemic discrimination in very loud voices. They GET that race, gender and even heterosexuality are social constructs.

We raised them this way because WE GET IT.

And while you were making those “you want fries with that?” jokes about us, we were quietly living up to one of the anthems of our youth: Everybody Wants to Rule the World.

We did it so quietly, you never even noticed. We barely noticed ourselves. Because we were just being who we are.

If you doubt any of what I am saying here, you can just Google it. Thanks to Gen X.

And now we can unapologetically say–YOU’RE WELCOME.

And if you don’t know why, it’s just because you don’t get it.


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To: ClearCase_guy

>> I think they have done very well with the deal that was handed to them. <<

That’s because they had parents who loved their country.


21 posted on 10/19/2022 4:55:32 PM PDT by zeebee ( The left thinks they can train smart people to be stupid.)
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To: libh8er
Trickle Down Economics (the other big lie) destroyed the middle class before we even had our sea legs underneath us.

Destroyed! Destroyed by the eeeeevil Gipper.

Anytime someone claims the middle class has been destroyed or even shrank better give a definition of the middle class at the start and the end of the period along with the percentage of the population in the lower, middle and upper classes. Much of the time the real figures show the middle class has shrunk by the income curve spreading out so some drop below while others climb up to the upper class.

22 posted on 10/19/2022 4:55:54 PM PDT by KarlInOhio (The government sees you as either livestock or pet. If things get bad they will eat their pets too.)
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To: skeeter

It makes no sense, and I think it’s hilarious.

I was seeing if I could start a generational FR thread war.
I’m bored...


23 posted on 10/19/2022 4:56:04 PM PDT by EEGator
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To: DallasBiff

My brothers and I were my parents TV remotes!


24 posted on 10/19/2022 4:56:32 PM PDT by lizma2
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To: libh8er

Both my sons were born during the designated time period for Generation X’ers. The oldest will be 56 next month. The youngest will be 52 in February. Neither one of them ever “got it.” Thank God they chose not to have kids.


25 posted on 10/19/2022 4:56:41 PM PDT by mass55th ("Courage is being scared to death, but saddling up anyway." ~~ John Wayne )
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To: libh8er; All

PS: I’m amused to see that I’m older than most of y’all who have posted so far.


26 posted on 10/19/2022 4:56:47 PM PDT by Scarlett156 (Know what I'm waiting for? ChoMoeJoe memoir in which he explains how it all worked out for the best.)
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To: DallasBiff
where reading newspapers, using a touch button land line phone, and just having 3 channels on TV, was the norm.

The newspapers were better written, and often worth reading.

Touch-button? Rotary dial for many of us. Almost no spam calls. On the other end you got a real person, not an endless sequence of touch tone menus that finally send you to the web site. On the other hand, long distance was REALLY expensive.

I could have had my children in the room while flipping through our 8 channels (in CT, you can get NY, New Haven and Hartford stations). Now I have to hunt through 60 OTA stations to find the same shows I watched back then on MeTV or Antenna.
27 posted on 10/19/2022 4:57:06 PM PDT by Dr. Sivana (What was 35% of the Rep. Party is now 85%. And it’s too late to turn back—Mac Stipanovich )
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To: EEGator

Boomers are way past forties


28 posted on 10/19/2022 4:58:08 PM PDT by FreshPrince
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To: dljordan
"Another generation of geniuses."

With their heads up their asses. They may think themselves book smart, but they're commonsense stupid.

29 posted on 10/19/2022 4:58:17 PM PDT by mass55th ("Courage is being scared to death, but saddling up anyway." ~~ John Wayne )
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To: EEGator

One thing you notice as you get older is each succeeding generation thinks they’re somehow special.

Mine thought the same thing.


30 posted on 10/19/2022 4:58:47 PM PDT by skeeter
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To: FreshPrince

1946-1964 year of birth.


31 posted on 10/19/2022 4:59:54 PM PDT by EEGator
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To: GaltAdonis

Mine was dukakis - what was i thinking...oh right i wasnt. Remember hearing rush for the first time...he straightened me out.


32 posted on 10/19/2022 5:00:07 PM PDT by FreshPrince
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To: EEGator

Yeah so youngest boomer would be around 58 or so


33 posted on 10/19/2022 5:00:58 PM PDT by FreshPrince
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To: GaltAdonis
"First President I got to vote for was Ronald Reagan."

First election year that I was legally eligible to vote in after turning 21, was 1968...Nixon v. Humphrey.

34 posted on 10/19/2022 5:00:59 PM PDT by mass55th ("Courage is being scared to death, but saddling up anyway." ~~ John Wayne )
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To: skeeter

Every generation does.
Just like every generation thinks their time is special.
How many religious nuts think “The End is Nigh” generation after generation?


35 posted on 10/19/2022 5:01:13 PM PDT by EEGator
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To: libh8er

We were the first generation where social and economic destruction of America became a commonly accepted thing.


36 posted on 10/19/2022 5:01:23 PM PDT by PGR88
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To: libh8er

They don’t get it.


37 posted on 10/19/2022 5:01:26 PM PDT by Billthedrill
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To: FreshPrince

Yes, that’s what I was originally stating.


38 posted on 10/19/2022 5:01:53 PM PDT by EEGator
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To: libh8er

isn’t she cute...


39 posted on 10/19/2022 5:02:13 PM PDT by Chode (there is no fall back position, there's no rally point, there is no LZ... we're on our own. #FJB)
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To: Dr. Sivana

Yeah we had wall mount rotary. Remember my dad blowing a gasket when he read the telephone bill...


40 posted on 10/19/2022 5:02:46 PM PDT by FreshPrince
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