FFS, stop simping. You only encourage more bad behavior.
The beta thirst is real.
I was friends with one of these in high school. She constantly needed to be with a guy; didn’t matter who. She online dated a Pakistani dude at 15 (he was in his thirties!) and almost left the country because he kept saying he’d bring her there and marry her. I explained that there was no fvcking way she’d get to remain Pagan (her whole family was; very nice but hippy-dippy people) and that she could kiss all of her rights goodbye. My Mom was dating a Pakistani fellow at the time, and he confirmed that. If I recall, he just ghosted her. She was needy.
A girl who behaves submissively can be attractive to a guy.
A submissive guy will rarely find women attracted to him. Women want a guy who makes them feel secure, who will confidently deal with whatever crisis life throws at him.
If I could offer just two pieces of advice to young men, they would be:
1) strive to improve yourself. Become that guy who women (and men) look to to help competently deal with bad problems and crisis situations.
2) Don’t look for “the woman of your dreams”. Instead, be alert for the woman who wants YOU and regards you as the man of HER dreams. She will be more likely to have an interest in keeping you happy. Diligently working on #1 makes #2 easier.
#2 applies to women too. Too many women spend their lives not wanting less than “Prince Charming”, and then are upset to discover that the Prince has better options than her, but may consent to keep her around for no-strings “booty calls” when he’s got nobody better that night.
Simps are real and have been around forever. The difference is that the Internet and certain sites have taken it to both astounding & disgusting proportions. They have made it:
a) Easy to become a simp
b) Easy for some women to prey on simps — and even get rich off doing it.