[SauronOfMordor]

A girl who behaves submissively can be attractive to a guy.

A submissive guy will rarely find women attracted to him. Women want a guy who makes them feel secure, who will confidently deal with whatever crisis life throws at him.

If I could offer just two pieces of advice to young men, they would be:

1) strive to improve yourself. Become that guy who women (and men) look to to help competently deal with bad problems and crisis situations.

2) Don’t look for “the woman of your dreams”. Instead, be alert for the woman who wants YOU and regards you as the man of HER dreams. She will be more likely to have an interest in keeping you happy. Diligently working on #1 makes #2 easier.

#2 applies to women too. Too many women spend their lives not wanting less than “Prince Charming”, and then are upset to discover that the Prince has better options than her, but may consent to keep her around for no-strings “booty calls” when he’s got nobody better that night.

[rbg81]

Too many women spend their lives not wanting less than “Prince Charming”, and then are upset to discover that the Prince has better options than her, but may consent to keep her around for no-strings “booty calls” when he’s got nobody better that night.

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It is even worse than that. Many women claim to want a “nice guy who respects them. However, if you look at what they really do, they throw themselves at “Chad” types who treat them like sh!t.

[kelly4c]

Words of wisdom