Posted on 01/13/2022 1:24:27 PM PST by Trillian
A Japanese woman has given up her baby after she discovered the sperm donor she slept with ten times to get pregnant had lied about his nationality and educational background in order to have sex with her.
The woman, identified as a married 30-year-old from Tokyo, has sued the sperm donor after finding out he was Chinese, not Japanese, had not graduated from Kyoto University, and was married, not single as he claimed, according to Tokyo Shimbun.
She and her husband, who already have one child, found the man on social media in 2019 after deciding to have a child by donor because her partner carried a hereditary condition that could be passed to his offspring.
She had sex with the donor, who was in his 20s, ten times before falling pregnant in June 2019 but months later, when it was too late for an abortion, the couple discovered the man had lied to them.
The child was handed to a Tokyo child care facility and put up for adoption after birth while the couple filed a lawsuit seeking for £2million in damages from the donor for fraud and emotional distress.
The woman's lawyer on Tuesday said she suffered from sleeping disorders and was physically and emotionally traumatised by the case - especially because of the backlash generated by her decision to give up the child.
But Mizuho Sasaki, a child welfare worker in Japan, branded the woman 'shallow' for 'treat[ing] the child like an object' in remarks to Vice.
He said: 'I think it’s better to leave the kid with someone who can be a good foster parent.'
The woman said she had filed a lawsuit against the man last month because she wanted to stop him potentially targeting other people.
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The Chinese and Japanese have been bitter enemies for many,many years.
He may have even been paid.
I guess she’d never heard of artificial insemenation.
You can add this to biggest lies told by men like the check is the mail, etc
Maybe, not judging here. She and her husband were probably shocked by the truth. Sometimes its takes some support and time to get over wrongs. She has an opportunity to make good from bad. Guess we will see.
I heard this almost a month ago from a youtube channel. It’s hypothesized the perp (in fact Chinese) must have been raised in Japan to be able to pass as a Japanese.
The child is still half hers. That should count for something. Of course, I am sure a loving family will still adopt it. Probabaly better than her hating on it over this guy’s lies.
This just proves the motivation is universal
I laughed at the article and a few of the responses so I must really be an awful person
I agree.
My 30+ years of doing business in Japan taught me their “racism” is a belief that the nation’s strength lies in ethnic and cultural purity. I had business associates in the 80s who lived in the states. On their return, fathers would not let their daughters marry these people as they were “not true Japanese “
The concept of “diversity” as we promote here is not the big deal there. Although watching NHK World, I sense that is changing
#1: If you are having sex with him, he’s a lover, not a sperm donor.
#2: People will lie to get sex, so do your own due dilligence.
#3: No matter what else went on, the child wasn’t at fault, and her response shows this woman probably isn’t fit to be a parent any way.
Or, i won’t …
TTIWWP
they dont have sperm banks in japan?
Yes, and they always invaded each other by stomping through Korea.
My sources in the Orient tell me the donor was the movie star Charlie Chan, who's actually a Swede. How’s that for a twist?
Don’t they use a turkey baster for this?
“he was Chinese, not Japanese”
Shocker...someone from China lies!!!
He should have gone for twenty or 30 times before he told her that he was fixed!
I’m sure the respect is still there
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