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My Pronouns Are She/They. What Are Yours?
Harvard Business Review ^ | June 15, 2021 | Paige Cohen

Posted on 06/19/2021 7:36:48 AM PDT by Stravinsky

What’s the best way to tell someone your pronouns at work?

-The answer is clear, straightforward, and casual — in the same way you’d share what region or city you live in.

- In-person, share them with your basic intro. “Hey! My name is Lily Zheng. I use they/them pronouns, and I’m a diversity, equity, and inclusion strategist living on Muwekma Ohlone land in the San Francisco Bay Area.”

- Online, including in email signatures, you can include your pronouns (typically in the format of “X/X” or “X/X/X” (e.g. “she/her” or “she/her/hers”).

- When it comes to asking someone their pronouns, it can get more complicated, as most people don’t ask everyone their pronouns — most people only tend to ask visibly transgender or gender-nonconforming people.

- The advice here is to focus instead on always introducing yourself with your pronouns. If the individual you meet feels comfortable doing so, they may share their pronouns with you.

- For all people who have not shared their pronouns with you, commit to using singular “they” until you learn their pronouns.


If people share that they use multiple sets of pronouns, make your best efforts to use the different sets they’ve shared. If you feel comfortable, you can ask them whether they prefer others using different pronouns within the same conversation (e.g. “I was talking to her the other day. They told me…”) or changing pronoun sets across different conversations (e.g. Conversation 1: “I was talking to her the other day. She told me…”; Conversation 2: “They mentioned that to me before! They were saying…”).


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TOPICS: Miscellaneous
KEYWORDS: countryonthedecline; insanity; pronouns
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To: Stravinsky

I call people like I see it. I really don’t care what they think about what I call them......


81 posted on 06/19/2021 10:11:38 AM PDT by kjam22
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To: Stravinsky

My preferred pronoun is HIS


82 posted on 06/19/2021 10:14:15 AM PDT by ne1410s (2 Tim 4:3 For the time will come when people will not put up with sound doctrine.)
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To: Stravinsky

If asked, I say the N version. What is that? Normal, of course. Heads explode.


83 posted on 06/19/2021 10:25:45 AM PDT by Islander7 (?There is no septic system so vile, so filthy, the left won't drink from to further their agendac)
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To: Stravinsky

My pronound are F and U.


84 posted on 06/19/2021 10:36:55 AM PDT by Uncle Miltie (I'm changing my name to 'Spike Protein'!)
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To: Stravinsky

How about I use my own non-binary pronouns for SnowFlakes like F#cuktard and Twatwaffle?


85 posted on 06/19/2021 10:42:49 AM PDT by Feckless (The US Gubbmint / This Tagline CENSORED by FR \ IrOnic, ain't it?)
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To: Stravinsky

Sheheit is my only pronoun for the woke.


86 posted on 06/19/2021 10:46:42 AM PDT by amihow (Postmodernism kills the real.)
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To: Dave911

Undoubtedly, her therapist’s pronouns are xet/xex.
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87 posted on 06/19/2021 10:51:15 AM PDT by Chaguito
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To: Stravinsky

sire/my lord/your majesty


88 posted on 06/19/2021 10:56:05 AM PDT by Mr. K (No consequence of repealing obamacare is worse than obamacare itself)
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To: Stravinsky
Pronoun advisor Paige Cohen

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89 posted on 06/19/2021 11:04:54 AM PDT by wardaddy (Feel my warmth)
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To: Stravinsky

When I run across dumb lefties like this I say I self-identify as a black, handicapped lesbian trapped in a man’s body.

When I’m around even crazier people I self-identify as Superman upholding Truth, Justice, and the American Way.


90 posted on 06/19/2021 11:11:04 AM PDT by Kevmo (some things may be true even if Donald Trump said them. ~Jonathan Karl)
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To: Stravinsky

Dude/The Dude


91 posted on 06/19/2021 11:24:05 AM PDT by Left2Right (There is water at the bottom of the ocean)
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To: Stravinsky
My Pronouns Are She/They. What Are Yours?

Shoo crazy person shoo!

92 posted on 06/19/2021 11:25:21 AM PDT by Harmless Teddy Bear (Nihil curo de ista tua stulta superstitione. (I'm not interested in your dopey religious cult.))
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To: Stravinsky

My pronouns are up/yours


93 posted on 06/19/2021 11:25:25 AM PDT by Fledermaus (The Republican Party is DEAD! It took 160 years but The Whigs Struck Back!)
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To: Stravinsky

I don’t ask for people’s “pronouns” and if some yahoo starts trying to tell me his or hers (those are the only two as far as I’m concerned), I will walk away.


94 posted on 06/19/2021 11:48:55 AM PDT by Allegra
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To: Stravinsky
My Pronouns Are She/They. What Are Yours?

Eww. Go away, ya psycho.

95 posted on 06/19/2021 11:52:10 AM PDT by Allegra
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To: Stravinsky

“Hey! My name is Lily Zheng. I use they/them pronouns, and I’m a diversity, equity, and inclusion strategist...”

“Hi Lily, my name is John Milner. Hmm, diversity, equity and inclusion strategist, you say. Have you ever had a job that contributed value to society?”


96 posted on 06/19/2021 12:31:12 PM PDT by John Milner (Marching for Peace is like breathing for food. )
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To: wgmalabama

Using pronouns is racist, sexist and demeaning.


97 posted on 06/19/2021 12:42:39 PM PDT by CJ Wolf ( what is scarier than offensive soo. words? Not being able to say them...God wins. )
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To: Stravinsky

Ack!

Barf!

She it.

5.56mm


98 posted on 06/19/2021 12:46:13 PM PDT by M Kehoe (Quid Pro Joe and the Ho need to go.)
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To: Mr. K

Seowulf, much like Bob Dole, rejects all pronouns.

You may address Seowulf as Seowulf in all cases.


99 posted on 06/19/2021 1:28:21 PM PDT by seowulf (Civilization begins with order, grows with liberty, and dies with chaos...Will Durant)
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To: Stravinsky

I identify as Smith & Wesson.


100 posted on 06/19/2021 1:54:55 PM PDT by nicollo (I said no!)
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