Posted on 03/26/2021 11:29:46 AM PDT by SeekAndFind
Dear Quentin,
I live in Utah, and I have been seeing a married man for almost six years. No, I’m not ashamed. Although we both care greatly for each other, our relationship started as and remains a mutually beneficial one: money for me, companionship for him.
He has been my sole source of income for the last 5 years, paying every single expense I have, and he is happy to do so because he loves me and I provide an escape from his miserable home life (his words). He’s been married a long time, and his only child is grown.
He is much, much older than I am, and he recently set up a life-insurance policy of $100,000 with me as the beneficiary. His wife knows nothing of me or the policy. We’ve taken steps to ensure I can get a copy of his death certificate without his family knowing.
He is mentally sound (always has been) and in great health. I need to know if his wife would have any claim to that policy should she discover it after his death. What is the likelihood a lawsuit would be in her favor if she sued? Does it matter who makes the payments on the policy?
The Other Woman
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Dear Other Woman,
Shame is a terrible, destructive force in individuals and societies, and I would not wish that anyone.
Married life is more complicated than many people care to admit. Some marriages have “don’t ask, don’t tell” arrangements. Others are marriages of conveniences. And others keep one person is completely in the dark about their spouse’s infidelities. And, yes, some wives are probably glad to have time and space for themselves, and would rather others listen to their husbands.
To your question, Utah is an equitable division state,
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That’s usually covered in most divorce decrees. A lot of time, old wife stays on the plan and new wife has to get a new policy.
She has a high opinion of herself for being a prostitute.
How other whore gets 500k
I got a kick out of the word twisting: ‘dating a married man’?... More like servicing a married older man for an excellent income agreement.
Lady, you are his mistress, and that ain’t no place to be.
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I was in a marriage that went sour. I never had a mistress but understood why people did it. I’m a religious person and figured it was immoral and incompatible with my Christian beliefs. After the kids grew up and moved away so did I after the divorce. I was miserable for many years but eventually remarried and have had a great life since.
I realize that not everybody shares my morality, many of my friends told me I was going to Hell for getting a divorce. I wish they could understand but realize some never will. It isn’t really my place to judge nor was it theirs.
The guy should write a letter to his lover and say he bought an insurance policy for her out of his lunch money. Insurance companies don’t want the government taking this money away from the lover, it will hurt business. A hundred thousand is a fairly trivial amount these days and wouldn’t pay for the legal fees of both sides to fight it.
I would say the guy ought to just buy gold coins or something and give it to her before he passes.
My first thought as well, considering that he has been paying all her expenses for years.
He's the home wrecker. She tells him he's the best she's ever had.
Kuralt.
Probably to protect a senior position in a church based in that state.
Bingo! A double hypocrite!
Aaaand... the other woman thinks the wife doesn't know! bwahahahahaha! Wife has weighed her options and chosen her poison.
They should both be shamed. What horrible people.
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