Posted on 02/12/2021 10:27:51 AM PST by setter
From Bumble Home Page: Why Bumble? Bumble was first founded to challenge the antiquated rules of dating. Now, Bumble empowers users to connect with confidence whether dating, networking, or meeting friends online. We’ve made it not only necessary but acceptable for women to make the first move, shaking up outdated gender norms. We prioritise kindness and respect, providing a safe online community for users to build new relationships.
Me too.
End result: I never realized when girls were hitting on me.
“Men not allowed to initiate contact.”
Are they allowed to decline that contact? If not why not? This is going to bomb big time.
“So, ok, we will have a date. What would you like to do on our date?”
“You want me to choose? Ok. How about a game of “Old Maid”?
I'm going to guess that Bumble is aware of that, and that males who reject too many times will be dropped.
Still, I think that guys will generally respond positively to any female attention. Even with a woman of below-average attractiveness, an attractive guy may decide she's worth keeping around as a reserve possibility, in case his more attractive date fails to show. Or he may decide to try her out, thinking that a less-attractive woman may try harder to keep him happy.
Here is some advice on on-line dating.
80% of it are both fake men and women who are paid to keep users from canceling.
The only semi-good one I found was Elite Singles.
Oh and the real secret is most of them are run by one company.
I though E harmony got sued over it’s gender rules. It only takes a few freaks to ruin something for everyone.
Funny, brings back a memory of a new HS for me, a cute blonde girl asked me to the dance, only problem was she had more freckles than my blue tick beagle.
HAHAHA. Substitute “F boy” for “dinner whore” or “gold digger” and that’s exactly how every other dating site is.
Another thing I learned during my short ‘stint’ of online dating-there are a lot more female alcoholics out there than I could have ever imagined! Really sad...
Found out where you look matters. Using typical apps ...
In SE Asia, most profiles are real and you get real dates with attractive women.
In Dubai and the Middle East, mostly prostitutes and women “for sale” on these apps
In the US. Not one contact or date (and lots of heffers and scary looking women with their own zip code)
This will be fun to watch. It will force women to confront their value in the dating market place when men they are attracted to won’t reply to them. They ain’t gonna like it. It’s not going to be like any other dating site where they can stroke their ego rejecting men all day long.
That’s not really how it works. The only minor difference is after you match the lady talks first (which is usually just a “hello”) and then you both message normally and ther guy can initiate a date. I didn’t really get the point figured it was for safety or something, but I did notice I met more ladies my type/peers with jobs and a life compared to others
The woman who sign up for that site will be psychotic, gold digging, hypochondriacal, prima donnas who are control freaks.
I wonder if they have the equivalent of the girl getting rejected and a group of his men gather together to giggle at how silly she was to think she had a shot with HIM!
I saw a statistical graph about online dating. Probably true maybe not. It showed the average guy got basically no unsolicited messages, male model type guy got 50 messages and average woman got 500 messages. Those are the odds guys are playing with online generally.
The woman who sign up for that site will be psychotic, gold digging, hypochondriacal, prima donnas who are control freaks.
Online “dating” is casual entertainment for those type of women. Guys watch sports or go do a hobby for entertainment. These women use online “friends” as social sponge to entertain and validated themselves.
Also known as Cougars R US.
this is not going to work.
women cannot handle rejection from men
not well at all
Not all women who show up at church are decent people.
Some are single moms and party girls who only go because they want to find a reliable guy to marry them and support them and their kids.
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