You know, I dont WANT to do it my self. I am happy to pay someone to do it.
I downloaded NordVPN, and it required a level of knowledge that I do not have.
I am sorry, I read through all of the posts in the thread while trying to put myself in you or my elderly parents place. There was some good advice given, but I am not sure that I or anyone else provided much that you probably found to be of much help.
You are certainly not alone. The majority of people in our society do not “WANT” to spend the time, energy, or have the patience to figure out how to perform even the relatively simple tasks that you want accomplished.
Hopefully you will find someone who can give you some hands on help where you live. You do need to be very, very careful about who you choose. If you conduct any of your financial life using your computer, as most of us now do... anyone who is given access to your accounts and passwords along with your computer will basically have the ability to fleece you completely. That is why depending on your age and level of aptitude it is often worth devoting effort into becoming more computer savvy. Good luck with what you are hoping to accomplish.