One of the things I have wondered it whether God wanted me to remain childless and whether my adoptions of my children went against His Will.
His will is in his Word.
His Word does not forbid adoption. It is spoken of positively. So no you did not disobey His will.
~ James 1:27
I actually think in your case His plan was for you to adopt your kids.
I also look at it this way. Adoptive parents have a special thing in common with God, because we are His adoptive children.
Interesting thought. Sometimes adoption can be a blessing for both child and parents.
A friend of my husband’s grandson lost both of his parents in an accident. My husband’s friend adopted the boy, he was about 10. He was truly following the directive to look after widows and orphans.
Then there are those that go to great lengths to convince women in crisis pregnancy to give them their baby. There’s numerous instances where women have been threatened (illegally) with legal action who changed their minds once their child was born and they held him in their arms.
I guess it’s a case by case situation. Only you know your heart. Only you know the situation your childrens birth mothers were in. I hope you have access to a good therapist or counselor well versed in adoption issues. Blessings to you.