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I Want Kids But My Husband Is Twice My Age
youtube.com ^ | 1/14/19 | Barcroft TV

Posted on 01/16/2019 7:44:26 PM PST by GrandJediMasterYoda

I Want Kids But My Husband Is Twice My Age

MARRIED Melinda and Larry Mikla have an unconventional age gap in their relationship - of 30 years. The lovestruck pair get stares everywhere they go, from passers-by who think they are dad and daughter, or worse, a granddaughter and her grandpa. The pair met when retired police officer Larry was the first responder to a minor traffic incident involving Mindy’s car in Ohio, USA, in August 2012. Now the couple are trying for a baby, but don’t know if it will be possible due to Larry having a vasectomy 18 years ago.

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To: sparklite2

Why is that sad? That’s a personal thing with her, if that’s what makes her happy so be it. Yeah, 69 is pretty up there but that’s what she wants.


61 posted on 01/17/2019 7:05:37 AM PST by GrandJediMasterYoda (Until Hillary is in jail, equal justice under the law will not exist in the USA)
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To: grey_whiskers

Tell me about it. One thing to get a young one, quite another to one that is mega hot like that, that is really freaky because old or not, she is way way out of his league. Maybe he knows a witch who made a love potion for him lol lol


62 posted on 01/17/2019 7:09:30 AM PST by GrandJediMasterYoda (Until Hillary is in jail, equal justice under the law will not exist in the USA)
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To: GrandJediMasterYoda

I had another shock yesterday.
Dana Perino had some pictures of her husband.
Boy, did he over-marry. He looks to be sixty, is bald and wrinkled. I’d be a very bad match-maker.


63 posted on 01/17/2019 7:11:25 AM PST by sparklite2 (Don't mind me. I'm just a contrarian.)
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To: OIFVeteran
I nipped that in the bud early in my marriage. Before we got married our preacher had us right out a list of our expectations and share it with each other. On my list was sexual activity at least twice a week. Well she was not living up to that within a year of us being married. I kept track for one month, sat down and discussed it with her, and told her I would divorce her if it didn’t improve. I’ve had no problems with the amount of sexual activity in my marriage since then.

One effective definition of "love", is the willingness to make an effort to make the other person happy. If she becomes unwilling to make an effort to make you happy, then that is a violation of the marriage agreement, and needs to be addressed as such.

I'm married over 30 years, and we still have sex several times a week.

I understand the feminist "no means no". Women need to understand that "no" can also mean "goodbye, I'll go make other arrangements".

64 posted on 01/17/2019 7:22:44 AM PST by PapaBear3625 ("Those who can make you believe absurdities, can make you commit atrocities." -- Voltaire)
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To: Secret Agent Man
The 4:1 that I know of, 1) Abused by her ex for years (including repeated spousal rape) and she paid dearly to get out of the marriage (financially, too); 2) Abused repeatedly and neglected by the husband, including financially, 3) Ex-husband is an alcoholic and mistreated her and the kids.

In all of those cases, the husband refused to go to counseling. None of them felt that mistreating their wife was wrong or anything remiss.

If the men are only worried about their money and nothing else, maybe they shouldn't get married and hire out someone for temporary relief. If all a man covets is his money, then he shouldn't ever get married.

65 posted on 01/17/2019 7:26:00 AM PST by Maigrey (Life, for a liberal, is one never-ending game of Calvinball. - Giotto)
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To: Innovative

Is that last sentence a discovery for you?

I tell you one thing

That fact is one woman loathe


66 posted on 01/17/2019 7:26:33 AM PST by wardaddy (I don’t care that you’re not a racist......when the shooting starts it won’t matter what yo)
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To: PapaBear3625

It used to be female conventional wisdom that, “If you’re not taking care of your man, some other woman will be more than happy to.”
But Instagram/Facebook, together with the sexual revolution, have caused younger women to treat young men as sex toys: until they can no longer get picked up by the hottest guys in bars, and then they’re all like “Where have all the good men gone?” — at which point, if they *do* marry a nice guy, he usually isn’t exciting enough in bed for their jaded palate.


67 posted on 01/17/2019 7:37:55 AM PST by grey_whiskers (The opinions are solely those of the author and are subject to change without notice.)
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To: YogicCowboy
I never married because, being a Christian, and in ministry, I would not date non-Christian women. The Christian ones I knew and pursued wanted the Bad Boys. I was always a Good Guy - never drunk, never drugged - and they apparently thought that made me boring, and no challenge.

I call that "missionary-position" dating; and the practitioners believe in "sloppy seconds agape."

68 posted on 01/17/2019 7:40:09 AM PST by grey_whiskers (The opinions are solely those of the author and are subject to change without notice.)
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To: grey_whiskers
But Instagram/Facebook, together with the sexual revolution, have caused younger women to treat young men as sex toys: until they can no longer get picked up by the hottest guys in bars, and then they’re all like “Where have all the good men gone?”

And then they get upset when somebody points out that the men she finds "acceptable" have better options than her high-mileage butt.

69 posted on 01/17/2019 7:49:59 AM PST by PapaBear3625 ("Those who can make you believe absurdities, can make you commit atrocities." -- Voltaire)
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To: ifinnegan

No; but there are scads of ‘heroic single women’s in churches who slept with bad boys and got knocked up.
If they’d saved sex for marriage, they wouldn’t be in that predicament. Fornication is a sin. But that’s ok, because good Christian men are boring.
Hint: according to Churchianity, women never ever sin. It’s always a man’s fault. (”It just ‘happened’.”) But if she hadn’t been horizontal with him in bed at his place at 11:00 PM, it wouldn’t have.


70 posted on 01/17/2019 7:59:06 AM PST by grey_whiskers (The opinions are solely those of the author and are subject to change without notice.)
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To: cherry

“I don’t know the reason but can not fathom why a young woman would want to be with an old guy.....it can’t be the sex...”

that is the reason for old guys wanting to be with young women. and it may be the only reason.

a friend of an old girlfriend wanted to get married. her boyfriend told her they would get married when she got pregnant. he “forgot” to tell her he had had a vasectomy. talk about a win-win (for him of course).


71 posted on 01/17/2019 8:04:19 AM PST by utax
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The net can offer her info and her physicians can give her advice.
72 posted on 01/17/2019 8:05:26 AM PST by deport
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To: GrandJediMasterYoda

Why any guy would get married without a bullet proof pre nuptial agreement is a mystery.


73 posted on 01/17/2019 8:09:32 AM PST by anton
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To: GrandJediMasterYoda

I have friends who got married when she was 18 and he was 39. They are still together, having raised 3 children.

On the other hand Tony Randall fathered two children which he never lived to see get through kindergarten, which is incredibly sad.


74 posted on 01/17/2019 8:15:32 AM PST by Buckeye McFrog
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To: anton
Why any guy would get married without a bullet proof pre nuptial agreement is a mystery.

No such thing. Judges increasingly invalidate pre-nups. And a pre-nup does not apply for child-support payments.

75 posted on 01/17/2019 8:18:12 AM PST by PapaBear3625 ("Those who can make you believe absurdities, can make you commit atrocities." -- Voltaire)
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To: sparklite2; GrandJediMasterYoda

Katherine McPhee married David Foster, a longtime HUGE superstar in the music industry as a musician, songwriter & producer with a long list of Grammy awards.

No doubt, his music connections was a part of her decision making process to marry him.


76 posted on 01/17/2019 8:29:51 AM PST by newfreep ("INSIDE EVERY PROGRESSIVE IS A TOTALITARIAN SCREAMING TO GET OUT" - DAVID HOROWITZ)
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To: KC_Lion

Thank you!!!


77 posted on 01/17/2019 8:33:06 AM PST by MeganC (There is nothing feminine about feminism.)
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To: GrandJediMasterYoda

Bingo.


78 posted on 01/17/2019 8:34:44 AM PST by TADSLOS (Confuse your doctor by putting on rubber gloves at the same time he does.)
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To: newfreep

When Jackie Kennedy married Onassis, the joke was what did he give her for Christmas? An old organ.


79 posted on 01/17/2019 8:36:00 AM PST by sparklite2 (Don't mind me. I'm just a contrarian.)
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To: Secret Agent Man

A friend divorced his wife. They had one child, and she had a daughter by a previous marriage whose father paid ZERO child support. He had a lucrative business so he bough a house for the three of them to live in AND paid $10,000/mo child support AND paid his step-daughter’s way through college (even though he didn’t have to, he’s a really nice guy and loved his stepdaughter). When his son turned 18 and graduated high school, he stopped paying child support but still gave his son money. His ex took him to court or mOre money but the judge looked at what he had already given her over 10 years and thankfully denied it.


80 posted on 01/17/2019 8:39:45 AM PST by Blood of Tyrants (Twitter is Trump's laser pointer and the media are all cats.)
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