I can say the same as your comment .
though in reflection as a few days ago
it doesn’t matter any more & those who thought
they had it “goin’ on” probably did but in the
long run?
Didn’t think so.
I think the thing that started to snap me out of it was when I was in HS and I happened to be walking in the hall during class for some reason and I passed one of the *popular* girls sitting in the hall in tears with some friends trying to console her cause she had just learned she was pregnant.