“There are wives who puposely deny their spouse sex.
There are women who weaponize sex and the word “no”.
It doesn’t validate any action against the aggressor.”
It does give the husband scriptural grounds to divorce his sexually unfaithful wife. But you’re right in that he cannot take action to force her to fulfill his “right”.
I should have realized earlier in my “marriage” that when my wife said to a bunch of friends and relatives, “Just withhold sex” to make your husband comply, I should’ve ended it right there.
It took me another 20 years before I fully understood the human behind that statement could not be lived with.