On the contrary: As you, yourself, have just pointed out: Both men and women complain about essentially the same thing: They can't find "worthy" spouses. (How they define "worthy" is admittedly a little different, but boils down basically to "do not have good values, work ethics, etc.")
Regards,
Thank you...
And you are correct.
Neither sex seems to want to look in the mirror and take any blame tho—always a problem in the resolution of an issue :(