Posted on 09/15/2017 8:15:38 PM PDT by BJ1
‘Attracted’ is one thing. But someone who doesn’t look beyond mere physical attraction and income deserves all the loneliness and ridicule in the world. CHARACTER, integrity, empathy, Godliness, devotion. That’s what matters.
I just don’t see the point of getting married by the grace of God get over-ruled by a government.
Item 5 on her list is a big problem yes. Men don’t want their wives to try to “out-man” them. Most women have understood this for thousands of years - until maybe the last 30 years or so.
The problem with a 35-40 year old American woman as I saw it, was how to tell if they pick a guy for love, or because they have baby rabies? I am already divorced once and didn’t want to be unhappily married so some post-wall woman could have her baby. Especially after she probably rejected dozens of “nice guys” when she was younger for the “more exciting” type.
Even worse would be to get divorced and have to pay that woman child support. Ugh. In my eyes, your partner count matters. The closer to zero the better. Zero is ideal to me.
I can almost guarantee she is a lard-ass.
I will never understand that.
>>>I just don’t see the point of getting married by the grace of God get over-ruled by a government.<<<
I 100% agree. I went abroad to try to do an end run around feminism. But marriage is a complete joke with the state in complete control. The state can say your marriage is over against your will, for no reason whatsoever. Then force the man to in slavery conditions to pay his ex wife money each month. She’s not sleeping with him anymore or cleaning his house. When I quit a job or get fired, I don’t expect to still get paid.
And when you see the quality of the celebrities women admire, it’s enough to say whoa, too much crazy, too much risk, too little reward. Especially since modern women expect their men to do half the chores.
Snowflake glasses and the sour is starting to weigh her face down, RBF upcoming in a few years. Nice big tat, teal butterfly. Tasteful, very tasteful. No doubt “strong and independent.” Maybe there’s some perfect dude sitting on a shelf like a Ken doll just waiting for her to make him miserable.
“The problem with Asian wives is that they’re really interested in settling down and having a family..”
You’re wrong. The way it works is this: An Asian woman gets a white guy as her regular guy (not black - they’re worried about blacks), then she tries to get him to marry her. If that works, she wants to move to America, then wants to bring her family over. Along the way, she has a kid with the guy. Then she files for divorce, gets the house, gets alimony and has her family moved into her house. The guy is left with nothing except the liabilities.
She missed the number one reason - feminazism.
Who the hell wants to have more than a hookup (if even that) with some skanky man hater. Incredibly enough she puts hooking up as the number one reason, but then she quickly says she has nothing against hook ups. That’s how stupid feminism is - they don’t realize that in hooking up they’re giving away their most valuable negotiating card for free!! What pathetic losers!
I’m sure nice girls that respect themselves have no trouble finding a good man.
Yeah, but she wouldn’t love you for you. You’d always know she was just in it for the paycheck.
besides their vajayjay, what does the typical woman bring to the table in regards to marriage? I’d really like to know what other men think.
Its funny I am glad this thread popped up tonight because I was feeling worse than I ever have tonight knowing that it is impossible to find that love that I crave and I believe should exist between a man and a woman....but I cannot imagine signing up for this abuse again. I have a beautiful 13 year old daughter, and you know how my ex's father and lawyer see that -- as LEVERAGE! My daughter wants to live with me and my ex is litigating to the end of the earth costing hundreds of thousands of dollars hoping that I will eventually throw in the towel or not be able to afford the fight. This is how the family court system is stacked against men. This is unjust. We will see what happens.
As for my ex girlfriend, while I am sad the relationship ended, because we are not married and because she moved on, I have no legal issues, no expensive divorce, no expensive financial or social investigation. and I am grateful...I think the answer to this dilemma is the same as for the malpractice crises -- cap lawyer fees for any divorce at $100,000 and the minute that generous threshold is met -- the divorce will end because the entire family court system from financial neutrals to social investigators is in on the scam of draining people of their financial resources...
Amen brother
absolutely nothing — complete liability, no assets...
I always like to see the faces of the losers who write these pearl of wisdom. They usually speak volumes.
No argument with your words.
The greatest reason is that men and women are turning away from a Judeo-Christian outlook. Even secular romantic ideals of a life together as the ultimate and only pure romance is passé.
Another reason is that young people do not know how GREAT babies are. I have six offspring and if I had prepared wisely and prudently it would be nice to have seven or eight children.
When I was in my 20s I gave no thought to children at all.
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