There are different levels of bad times.
There are different levels of ability to cope with them.
Sure, lay it off on the guy who is dead. It prevents you from having to grasp what his last thoughts were, the utter despair.
You’re not nearly as adept at grasping this situation as you think you are.
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This wasn’t about ‘coping,’ it was a coward’s revenge on his wife.
I hope she has the strength not to accept the blame.
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The one suicide I kind of get was Robin Williams’ after hearing about the terrible shape he was in.