Wait’...the kid is four years old and they are going to still circumcise him...?
Dad must be a sick bastard to still want to go though with it because he wants his kids penis to look like his...?
When my daughter had her sons she wasn’t going to circumcise them because her husband was not circumcised. The problem was even though the doctor told them to just keep pulling the skin back (which they tried) it kept growing over the end and was so tight it hurt him and he bled every time they tried. Finally at 2-3 yrs. she had him circumcised and yes he was hurting terribly for several days. It is best to have it done at birth.
Back when I was young and silly we used that reasoning, that we wanted dad's and sons' penises to be similar.
It's really a moot argument .... because most families, including ours, never have that moment when a father and son are naked together and the son is looking at his father's privates.