Posted on 03/12/2015 7:57:04 AM PDT by C19fan
Sugar daddy dating sites - where young, attractive women can find themselves rich, older men who will pay for their companionship - have soared in popularity over the years. SugarDaddyForMe, the largest network in the world, boasts 45 million users, and, according to Femail's interviews with more than 20 of its female users, enables women to earn more than $60,000 a year, as well as endless perks – and a handful of surprisingly substantial relationships with their sugar daddies. Many of the women who use the website have a great deal in common. They were almost all 'skeptical' of the concept at first, and, while their biggest fear is still being judged by society for what they do, every single one of them insisted that there is a very clear distinction between prostitution and being paid to date a man – even when they have sex with them.
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“their biggest fear is still being judged by society for what they do”
Duh!
Frankly, this is nothing new. Women have been doing this for years with men, even entering into marriage, but the woman stays only as long as she lives a certain lifestyle.
If the money dries up (man loses job, makes bad investments) the woman divorces him.
A fleshlight only costs $65 bucks, LOL, why bother with this?
So why are they not married? It’s easy enough to do and eliminates what little social sigma remains as well as getting it right with the Lord.
Good question. Maybe one or both don’t want marriage, I don’t know for sure.
semantics
Then again, I'm actually interested in finding a woman who has a strong intellect and a life.
Big question to these ‘women’: “If Sugar Daddy’s cash spigot to you suddenly shut off completely with not so much as a nickel, WOULD THE SEX STILL CONTINUE!??”
Let's put it this way: He is the one for whom "no sex" would be a deal-breaker, and she is the one for whom "no money" would be a deal-breaker.
That, in public, they can interact in a civil and maybe even friendly fashion is meaningless - people can be polite towards, joke around with, and even display sincere kindness towards: Their cabbies, barbers, shoeshine boys, elevator hops, etc.
Regards,
“Femail” is the women’s section of UK Daily Mail. No I don’t read it, but it shows up on the menu of my Daily Mail app.
Most of those ho’s are pretty skanky looking. You would have to pay ME to be seen in public with them.
It all comes down to a number
One man but receiving money = Mistress or Concubine
Multiple men and receiving money = prostitute
Any number of men but NOT receiving money = whore
>> why would a 40 something year old man want to date a 20 something<<
You missed a portion of the equation.
That one is pretty, but the photo is a professional shot scene (can tell by the catch-lights in the eyes). My guess is she's a model and that shot was promotional for the ShugarDaddyForMe site.
While I’m sure many of the sugar daddies are decent enough to give the poor dear a night off, I doubt she could refuse him everytime without being cut off.
Mmmm... Mistress and Concubine are not the same thing. A Mistress is a woman other than a man’s wife with whom he has sexual relations. A Concubine is a woman other than a man’s wife with whom he has at least one child by, sometimes living in the same household along with the wife.
Historically, Concubines were usually taken on when a married couple could not conceive a child by themselves and so a Concubine was taken on in order to continue the bloodline, but they were also a means to increase the family size even if the wife was not barren. Even the Bible speaks of some famous names having concubines, although I will leave it to better-read individuals to note which ones did during their lives.
“After about 30 seconds of conversation, you would think they would realize they are not on the same wavelength.”
I hear that said a lot, and cant help but think the person hasn’t been on many dates with 40 something women lately. A few hours with the resume comparing, hearing their travel requirements, and a general feeling of being in a job interview, its refreshing to experience the late 20s thing with the right person. Not all of them, but some.
The older women nearly all feel like they have nothing to learn from a man, act like admiring a guy is beneath them, and mistake career success and an exotic travel resume with desirability. If I hear one more story about Machu pichu, India, or the Himilayas.,,..
Most 29 year olds are still twits,,, a few are very good company I imagine.
Bingo.
The Girlfriend Experience
“The older guy gets his ego stroked (no pun intended). He can show up to events with a much younger woman and he thinks all his friends are thinking, “Wow, Mike must...”
Ever think it has more to do with him and what he wants, than what you or others think? On the face if it, he is clearly saying he doesn’t care what your opinion is,,,
As for the woman only wanting to get her bills paid, are you seriously suggesting that older women don’t only tolerate a man as long as he has the cash? Please,,,
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