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'We are NOT prostitutes!' Femail goes inside the 'sugar daddy' dating world with the women [tr]
UK Daily Mail ^ | March 12, 2015 | Annabel Fenwick Elliott

Posted on 03/12/2015 7:57:04 AM PDT by C19fan

Sugar daddy dating sites - where young, attractive women can find themselves rich, older men who will pay for their companionship - have soared in popularity over the years. SugarDaddyForMe, the largest network in the world, boasts 45 million users, and, according to Femail's interviews with more than 20 of its female users, enables women to earn more than $60,000 a year, as well as endless perks – and a handful of surprisingly substantial relationships with their sugar daddies. Many of the women who use the website have a great deal in common. They were almost all 'skeptical' of the concept at first, and, while their biggest fear is still being judged by society for what they do, every single one of them insisted that there is a very clear distinction between prostitution and being paid to date a man – even when they have sex with them.

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TOPICS: Society
KEYWORDS: daddy; sugar
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To: C19fan

“their biggest fear is still being judged by society for what they do”

Duh!


21 posted on 03/12/2015 8:24:33 AM PDT by Georgia Girl 2 (The only purpose o f a pistol is to fight your way back to the rifle you should never have dropped.)
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To: C19fan

Frankly, this is nothing new. Women have been doing this for years with men, even entering into marriage, but the woman stays only as long as she lives a certain lifestyle.

If the money dries up (man loses job, makes bad investments) the woman divorces him.


22 posted on 03/12/2015 8:24:47 AM PDT by Erik Latranyi (Walker/Cruz 2016)
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To: C19fan

A fleshlight only costs $65 bucks, LOL, why bother with this?


23 posted on 03/12/2015 8:25:25 AM PDT by baltimorepoet
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To: arthurus

So why are they not married? It’s easy enough to do and eliminates what little social sigma remains as well as getting it right with the Lord.


Good question. Maybe one or both don’t want marriage, I don’t know for sure.


24 posted on 03/12/2015 8:27:28 AM PDT by Dilbert San Diego
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To: C19fan

semantics


25 posted on 03/12/2015 8:29:18 AM PDT by joshua c (Please dont feed the liberals)
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To: skinndogNN
I'm in my early 40's and dated a few 28-29 year olds. There was very little in common. I'm not saying it couldn't work but that is a bit like a needle in a haystack.

Then again, I'm actually interested in finding a woman who has a strong intellect and a life.

26 posted on 03/12/2015 8:30:37 AM PDT by Solson (Grand Old Party 1854 - 2010 RIP)
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To: momtothree

Big question to these ‘women’: “If Sugar Daddy’s cash spigot to you suddenly shut off completely with not so much as a nickel, WOULD THE SEX STILL CONTINUE!??”


27 posted on 03/12/2015 8:40:29 AM PDT by AmericanInTokyo (Stop the Amnesty runaway train, or we will literally lose our Republic folks.)
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To: Dilbert San Diego
Based on what I’ve seen, I would say that there is more to what they have going on than just sex. But, would also think that there would be nothing going on with them, if not for sex being part of their arrangement.

Let's put it this way: He is the one for whom "no sex" would be a deal-breaker, and she is the one for whom "no money" would be a deal-breaker.

That, in public, they can interact in a civil and maybe even friendly fashion is meaningless - people can be polite towards, joke around with, and even display sincere kindness towards: Their cabbies, barbers, shoeshine boys, elevator hops, etc.

Regards,

28 posted on 03/12/2015 8:41:17 AM PDT by alexander_busek (Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.)
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To: humblegunner

“Femail” is the women’s section of UK Daily Mail. No I don’t read it, but it shows up on the menu of my Daily Mail app.


29 posted on 03/12/2015 8:44:01 AM PDT by matt1234 (2015-2016 America's enemies sense obama's weakness and strike)
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To: C19fan

Most of those ho’s are pretty skanky looking. You would have to pay ME to be seen in public with them.


30 posted on 03/12/2015 8:49:59 AM PDT by Cementjungle
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To: AEMILIUS PAULUS

It all comes down to a number

One man but receiving money = Mistress or Concubine
Multiple men and receiving money = prostitute
Any number of men but NOT receiving money = whore


31 posted on 03/12/2015 8:53:43 AM PDT by taxcontrol
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To: Cementjungle
Au contraire mon frère.


32 posted on 03/12/2015 8:57:25 AM PDT by petercooper ("How To Destroy The Country In 6 Short Years" by Barack Obama & the Democrats)
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To: momtothree

>> why would a 40 something year old man want to date a 20 something<<

You missed a portion of the equation.


33 posted on 03/12/2015 9:04:15 AM PDT by servantboy777
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To: petercooper
Au contraire mon frère.

That one is pretty, but the photo is a professional shot scene (can tell by the catch-lights in the eyes). My guess is she's a model and that shot was promotional for the ShugarDaddyForMe site.

34 posted on 03/12/2015 9:10:13 AM PDT by Cementjungle
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To: V_TWIN

While I’m sure many of the sugar daddies are decent enough to give the poor dear a night off, I doubt she could refuse him everytime without being cut off.


35 posted on 03/12/2015 9:13:48 AM PDT by Jonty30 (What Islam and secularism have in common is that they are both death cults)
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To: taxcontrol

Mmmm... Mistress and Concubine are not the same thing. A Mistress is a woman other than a man’s wife with whom he has sexual relations. A Concubine is a woman other than a man’s wife with whom he has at least one child by, sometimes living in the same household along with the wife.

Historically, Concubines were usually taken on when a married couple could not conceive a child by themselves and so a Concubine was taken on in order to continue the bloodline, but they were also a means to increase the family size even if the wife was not barren. Even the Bible speaks of some famous names having concubines, although I will leave it to better-read individuals to note which ones did during their lives.


36 posted on 03/12/2015 9:14:41 AM PDT by Utilizer (Bacon A'kbar! - In world today are only peaceful people, and the muzlims trying to kill them)
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To: skinndogNN

“After about 30 seconds of conversation, you would think they would realize they are not on the same wavelength.”

I hear that said a lot, and cant help but think the person hasn’t been on many dates with 40 something women lately. A few hours with the resume comparing, hearing their travel requirements, and a general feeling of being in a job interview, its refreshing to experience the late 20s thing with the right person. Not all of them, but some.

The older women nearly all feel like they have nothing to learn from a man, act like admiring a guy is beneath them, and mistake career success and an exotic travel resume with desirability. If I hear one more story about Machu pichu, India, or the Himilayas.,,..
Most 29 year olds are still twits,,, a few are very good company I imagine.


37 posted on 03/12/2015 9:15:45 AM PDT by DesertRhino (I was standing with a rifle, waiting for soviet paratroopers, but communists just ran for office.)
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To: taxcontrol

Bingo.


38 posted on 03/12/2015 9:22:26 AM PDT by rbg81
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To: Dilbert San Diego

The Girlfriend Experience


39 posted on 03/12/2015 9:26:17 AM PDT by RinaseaofDs
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To: momtothree

“The older guy gets his ego stroked (no pun intended). He can show up to events with a much younger woman and he thinks all his friends are thinking, “Wow, Mike must...”

Ever think it has more to do with him and what he wants, than what you or others think? On the face if it, he is clearly saying he doesn’t care what your opinion is,,,

As for the woman only wanting to get her bills paid, are you seriously suggesting that older women don’t only tolerate a man as long as he has the cash? Please,,,


40 posted on 03/12/2015 9:26:27 AM PDT by DesertRhino (I was standing with a rifle, waiting for soviet paratroopers, but communists just ran for office.)
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