[CorporateStepsister]

“And, believe me, as a woman who stopped working to raise her children, I now understand the value of a woman working, or at least holding onto a part-time job. Suppose the husband becomes ill... or suppose he leaves. “

I cannot emphasize this enough.

Women have a lot more to lose if the man walks away. With the kids and being primary caregiver, women are often considered devalued for being unwed with kids, even if the kids are born in wedlock. So frankly, women SHOULD consider a career/job a priority and keep it no matter what.

[Deagle]

Yes, I agree, Women should never get married as they would only face hardship when the husband leaves!

Conversely, Men should never get married as they would face financial hardship when the wife leaves!

[Nepeta]

So frankly, women SHOULD consider a career/job a priority and keep it no matter what.

Even if you marry a decent one who is pure of heart and adores you and your children, your life falls apart when he falls through an open manhole if you do not have a decent job. Never assume anyone will take care of you.

[CatherineofAragon]

"So frankly, women SHOULD consider a career/job a priority and keep it no matter what."

If I had done that, I would be miserable...maybe even divorced.

No, thanks.

[Tired of Taxes]

Yes, that’s good advice. Even if she just keeps a part-time job and her own money on the side. Then, if everything goes wrong, she can find full-time work more easily.