The support of family members works both ways.
You should definitely keep a ledger to account for every penny so you know when you have paid it back and can be on your way. Families are just a source of funds for your dreams, after all.
what kind of question is that? I never did that and neither did my kids.
You don’t know any thing about me. You started by calling me an idiot and blaming me for the cost of college.
You got the wrong person.
If parents want to do what they want with their money and make declarations refusing to help their kids to teach them a lesson, then do it, but don’t cry when you’re sitting n your own urine in a dayroom in a wheel chair while the attendant is waiting for shift change.