You would first have to find a minister or Priest that would marry you without a license, and it would not be a legal marriage, it sure wouldn’t work well for you if you went into the military and it could haunt you in many ways as a civilian.
Common law marriage is legal in some states, but it still has to comply with the law, to be legal.
You tryin' to make me MORE nutty; trying to figger this sentence out??
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