I have some issues about the church which are different from the ones cited in the article but matter to me. It makes me wonder why a whole lot of people a lot smarter than me don't seem to be bothered about any of it.
I can't advise you what to do. Pray about it. I can't fault you about the music. I love the liturgy and music in the Catholic church. And there are lots of nice people - in almost all churches.
Would love to have you return to the Mother Church. I will pray for your journey!!
A human institution, whose priests are often no saints (then again whose are), it nevertheless has stood up to a millenium of assault, calumny and hostility from the world, withstood wars, dictators, schism and jihad.
I notice that when intellectuals, writers and other learned men seek out the faith, they go to the mother church-- never to splinter sects.