Would love to have you return to the Mother Church. I will pray for your journey!!
This is what she wrote me on June 14. "I didn't want to stir anything up with you but I had another dream of him the other night...he didn't look sad but didn't look happy either...just kind of calm and content...I remember talking cordially to him but can't remember anything he said to me...I just somehow knew he wasn't quite in Heaven yet but definitely not in or heading to hell...then he turned into a bologna sandwich...don't even ask what the heck that's supposed to mean...I wouldn't begin to have a clue!!! D"
That is bizarre about a bologna sandwich in the dream. Maybe he is hungry (spiritually); he was so depressed he lost 50 pounds before he died. That is kind of disturbing. My daughter wouldn't necessarily know anything about Purgatory.
I can receive some of my communions for him and also try to get a plenary indulgence. Might be more of my craziness but won't hurt to run it by you. The most that could come of it is nothing. It just occurred to me today that maybe I ought to do it for him.
My son committed suicide on Dec. 5, 2012 and I have been so worried if he will be ok. He was also mad at me because I called the police once and that was the last time he talked to me.