I hope you get a chance CC to listen to The Joseph Papers series with your husband.
They were complied with LDS and non LDS Scholars
Joseph Smith Tour Part 1 New England
Scholars visit New England, where the Smiths and the Macks, Joseph’s noble heritage, originated. Tour vermont, where Joseph Smith Sr. and Lucky Mack began a large family—and a fascinating narrative unequaled in American religious history.
You have had numerous chances to defend your bogus religion.
Too bad you can't.