Posted on 02/14/2013 11:02:36 AM PST by Morgana
The present. The future. Not everybody likes to talk about their past. Been married over 20 years and know almost nothing about what my wife did in high school, and she probably knows even less about what I did. For a lot of people the past is passed, no reason to talk about it.
Ultimately, I am told, most women feel a sense of relief after an abortion
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That’s probably the most atrocious and contemptible lie I’ve heard in a long, long time.
Corrected: Ultimately, I am told, most women feel a sense of GREIF, SHAME, REMORSE, GUILT, SADNESS, DESPAIR AND REGRET after an abortion
He should also be distressed that he is dating a woman who murdered her baby, and he should think about whether he really wants a relationship with someone like that
“She could have an abortion without the father’s signature, but not put the baby up for adoption.”
Shocking. Is this still the case?
“Shocking... is this still the case?”
I believe it is. Have you ever read a local paper in the court section part and it will list unnamed child X and the father’s name... with adoption also mentioned. I think with respect to adoption, the courts wanted the biological father to be allowed to raise his own child IF the Mother didn’t. There were cases where the father never knew and would have taken/raised his child. This became problematic later because the child could be taken away from the adoptive parents and placed with the Father. If the Father did not contact the court and requested custody of the child for a certain amount of time.. the child was deemed “free” for adoption. If the court knew of the Father’s address, he would receive legal papers to either come forward or relinquish custody.
If it’s none of the man’s business if his child is killed or not, then it’s nobody’s business if he leaves the mother when the child is born. After all, by the logic of the feminists, he’s only incidental to the fact.
“Dear Abby died and her column should have died with her.”
Yea, and as I understand it, these columns are now “representative cases” rather than real cases.
Yes, in WA State, the woman can have an abortion without the consent of the father, but not put the baby up for adoption. I think that is the case in CA, as well. I knew a young girl that it happened to, under the same threat, that the boy’s mother would take the child away from her and raise it and force her to pay support.
The young woman did not agree to the abortion and the boy’s mother was not successful in having her declared an unfit mother. As it turned out, having the baby and fighting to keep her turned out to be the best thing that every happened to the young woman.
She sought the help of social services, who sent her to career training classes, parenting classes and even helped her find a job and paid for the day care. Then before she was 21, she built her own house on one of those you build it equity programs. She got married to a nice Christian guy, moved to a bigger house, and had three more children, all because the first boy friend threatened to take away the baby, saying that she would never be anything but a welfare queen. She proved him wrong.
That is the type of story that girls need to hear!
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