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I wish more parents would make their brats behave in public.
1 posted on 02/07/2013 10:15:00 AM PST by Morgana
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To: Morgana

Awesome story. Pics of the lovely family at the link.


2 posted on 02/07/2013 10:20:55 AM PST by Responsibility2nd (NO LIBS. This Means Liberals and (L)libertarians! Same Thing. NO LIBS!!)
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To: Morgana

In some cases the brats are the parents. Wonder if Chuckie Cheese will start some sort of disount program for parents that don’t get into a dust up.


3 posted on 02/07/2013 10:23:04 AM PST by WinMod70
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I bet the parents know how to spank.


4 posted on 02/07/2013 10:25:47 AM PST by demshateGod (The fool hath said in his heart, There is no God.)
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To: Morgana

Awesome! I wonder if they charge 10% for misbehaved kids? :-)


5 posted on 02/07/2013 10:26:08 AM PST by VeniVidiVici (Obama's vision - No Job is a Good Job)
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All we ever got were compliments. I am biased but I have to admit that my children were and still are very well-behaved, particularly in public. Mrs. CommerceComet deserves most of the credit.


6 posted on 02/07/2013 10:27:15 AM PST by CommerceComet (Obama vs. Romney - clear evidence that our nation has been judged by God and found wanting.)
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I remember being a hyperactive tot when my grandparents took me to the lunch counter in an old W.T. Grant store. There was a sticker on the children’s menu that said “We Love Kids!”

When the waitress came to our table my grandmother pointed to that and asked her “So, do you love kids?” This waitress, who was obviously having a bad day, flashed me the look of death and snapped “Only if they’re good!”

Scared the living crap out of me. I was on my best behavior in restaurants for the remainder of my childhood.


7 posted on 02/07/2013 10:27:15 AM PST by Buckeye McFrog
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Can’t wait to see the +$4 on the bill that says “poorly behaved brats” and the subsequent outcry and lawsuit.


10 posted on 02/07/2013 10:28:55 AM PST by Tea Party Terrorist (Those who work for a living are now outnumbered by those who vote for a living.)
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Cant count how many times been disturbed in public by annoying brats and the idiotic “parents” who refuse to control them .......


11 posted on 02/07/2013 10:28:59 AM PST by njslim (St)
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To: Morgana

One of our local restaurants banned children under 6. Caused white a flap, but it seems the vast majority of patrons supported the idea. The owner says that since the ban, business has quadrupled.


12 posted on 02/07/2013 10:31:26 AM PST by fatnotlazy
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Our kids were generally well behaved in restaurants. On the rare occasions when they did have a meltdown, we took them out so they didn’t disturb the other patrons. But even well behaved children can leave more of a mess to clean up and if that was the case we would leave a more generous tip to compensate for the extra clean up.
14 posted on 02/07/2013 10:33:59 AM PST by Teotwawki (For a person to get a thing without paying for it, another must pay for it without getting it.)
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One of our local restaurants banned children under 6. Caused quite a flap, but it seems the vast majority of patrons supported the idea. The owner says that since the ban, business has quadrupled.


15 posted on 02/07/2013 10:34:28 AM PST by fatnotlazy
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Beautiful family. Mom’s a real looker.


16 posted on 02/07/2013 10:35:30 AM PST by fattigermaster
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Good to see. I would also support an extra surcharge for unruly children. Recently while eating out, my family and I were “treated” to a family dining with children who considered the restaurant a playground, all to the laughs of the parents. At one point one of the children ran into and broke off a piece of the window blinds, while the parents did a slight gasp and said to the child “It’s ok, don’t worry about it”. If I were the owner, I would have added the cost to repair or replace the damaged blinds to the bill.


18 posted on 02/07/2013 10:37:08 AM PST by richmwill
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That’s because so many other kids are undisciplined, spoiled, selfish brats who will grow up to be good democrats.


19 posted on 02/07/2013 10:44:55 AM PST by I want the USA back (Don't try to understand the liberal "mind." It's impossible for normal people.)
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The mom said that she and her husband make sure they have a family dinner every night.

Letting them eat in the family room in front of the TV by themselves does not socialize children so that they even know correct behavior is.

If they are used to eating and interacting with adults and conversing with them around the table at home, transferring that behavior to a restaurant table is a no brainer.

It really is that simple.


22 posted on 02/07/2013 10:49:54 AM PST by Valpal1
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To: Morgana

My kids are so annoying, we sit them at their own table.


23 posted on 02/07/2013 10:50:56 AM PST by mmichaels1970
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When I waited tables and tended bar in the early 80's, I frequently gave free ice cream, pie, cake, etc.... to tables who had well behaved children. I explained why at the time.

Do take your young children to fine restaraunts in non-peak dining times. Teach your children to be part of conversation and listening. Treat them as adults and with interest and they will magically transform into dinner companions. Do not take your kids to chain places, fast food places, and diners. Everyone there treats them like little children. So that's what you'll get!

24 posted on 02/07/2013 10:51:48 AM PST by blackdog (There is no such thing as healing, only a balance between destructive and constructive forces.)
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The reason kids behave badly in public is because their parents have no idea how to behave in public themselves.

It amazes me when I see parents take a baby stick him in a high chair then proceed to ignore him and are astonished that the child acts up.

We took our daughter to her first restaurant at a little over a month old. We always set her in between us and we made sure she had something to keep her occupied and we kept engaging her through the whole meal. If for some reason she cried we couldn't get her to settle down her Mom would take her either outside or a waiting area or other part of the restaurant where there were few people. (No one else could take her because she would panic if she couldn't be near Mom in a strange place.)

She rarely cried (she was a fairly happy baby) as she grew restaurants become a fun activity she would color and we would play counting games and color games and name things as she learned to talk. We made a trip to the restaurant natural AND we made sure we reinforced good behavior and punished bad behavior.

As she got bigger we got her a fold up booster chair. When she seen us pack it up she knew were going out to eat and she would go get her restaurant pack. In it we kept crayons and colored pencils and some small dolls and a few books.

Its really not hard but its like anything else you got to think it through and prepare. Friends of ours had trouble with their kids being total brats in a restaurant and they asked us how come our Daughter was so well behaved. We showed them our little kit and we explained that they would need to go through a few bad trips to break the patterns they had put in place.

They managed it in 3 trips and their kids never acted badly again. The problem I see with most parents around our area that have trouble with their kids (and its sadly a large majority) is they don't seem to really want to be parents. They have kids then proceed to ignore them and are astonished when the act badly.

27 posted on 02/07/2013 10:56:22 AM PST by Mad Dawgg (If you're going to deny my 1st Amendment rights then I must proceed to the 2nd one...)
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Kids = the reason I do my grocery shopping in the middle of the night.


29 posted on 02/07/2013 11:14:56 AM PST by rfreedom4u (I have a copy of the Constitution! And I'm not afraid to use it!)
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Most people who complain about children are usually Empty nesters. Children remind them of better times when they were young and had children, and it subconsciously makes them upset. It’s better for them to be out of sight out of mind. The whole “children should be seen but not heard” generation.


32 posted on 02/07/2013 11:43:07 AM PST by skinndogNN
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