Don’t call me sweet cheeks. It’s silly. :p And I still contend that the man who ran his car into a train was selfish and hurt innocent people that will have to live with trauma and scars they don’t deserve. Thats all I meant. I did not know that made me a jerk. I’ve been called worse. :D
You’re right, of course. This dead guy should have overdosed or shot himself rather than traumatize those on this train. Those dissing you have misplaced empathies.
You aren’t a jerk but, hopefully, jerked some sense into others. How someone’s deliberate act can cause others to live in pain - the same thing he wanted to escape from.