Posted on 11/25/2012 1:20:02 PM PST by Mountain Bike Vomit Carnage
12 Things You Should Be Able to Say About Yourself
You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough. - Mae West
You know youre on the right track when you can repeat each of the following headlines to yourself, honestly. (And if you cant, this list gives you something positive to work on.)
1. I am following my heart and intuition.
Dont be pushed by your problems. Be led by your dreams. Live the life you want to live. Be the person you want to remember years from now. Make decisions and act on them. Make mistakes, fall and try again. Even if you fall a thousand times, at least you wont have to wonder what could have been. At least you will know in your heart that you gave your dreams your best shot.
Each of us has a fire in our hearts burning for something. Its our responsibility in life to find it and keep it lit. This is your life, and its a short one. Dont let others extinguish your flame. Try what you want to try. Go where you want to go. Follow your own intuition. Dream with your eyes open until you know exactly what it looks like. Then do at least one thing every day to make it a reality.
And as you strive to achieve your goals, you can count on there being some fairly substantial disappointments along the way. Dont get discouraged, the road to your dreams may not be an easy one. Think of these disappointments as challenges tests of persistence and courage. At the end of the road, more often than not, we regret what we didnt do far more than what we did. Read Quitter.
2. I am proud of myself.
You are your own best friend and your own biggest critic. Regardless of the opinions of others, at the end of the day the only reflection staring back at you in the mirror is your own. Accept everything about yourself EVERYTHING! You are you and that is the beginning and the end no apologies, no regrets.
People who are proud of themselves tend to have passions in life, feel content and set good examples for others. It requires envisioning the person you would like to become and making your best efforts to grow.
Being proud isnt bragging about how great you are; its more like quietly knowing that youre worth a lot. Its not about thinking youre perfect because nobody is but knowing that youre worthy of being loved and accepted. All you have to do is be yourself and live the story that no one else can live the story of your own unique life. Be proud, be confident, you never know who has been looking at you wishing they were you.
3. I am making a difference.
Act as if what you do makes a difference. It does.
Is it true that we all live to serve? That by helping others we fulfill our own destiny? The answer is a simple yes. When you make a positive impact in someone elses life, you also make a positive impact in your own life. Do something thats greater than you something that helps someone else to be happy or to suffer less.
You are only one, but you are one. You cannot do everything, but you can do something. Smile and enjoy the fact that you made a difference one youll likely remember forever.
4. I am happy and grateful.
Happiness is within you, in your way of thinking. How you view yourself and your world are mindful choices and habits. The lens you choose to view everything through determines how you feel about yourself and everything that happens around you.
Being grateful will always make you happy. If youre finding it hard to be grateful for anything, sit down close your eyes and take a long slow breath and be grateful for oxygen. Every breath you take is in sync with someones last.
5. I am growing in to the best version of me.
Judy Garland once said, Always be a first rate version of yourself instead of a second rate version of somebody else. Live by this statement. There is no such thing as living in someone elses shoes. The only shoes you can occupy are your own. If you arent being yourself, you arent truly living youre merely existing.
Remember, trying to be anyone else is a waste of the person you are. Embrace that individual inside you that has ideas, strengths and beauty like no one else. Be the person you know yourself to be the best version of you on your terms. Improve continuously, take care of your body and health, and surround yourself with positivity. Become the best version of you.
6. I am making my time count.
Time is the most valuable constituent of life. Make the time for what does matter today. Really being in the moment, finding passion in your life, seeing the world and traveling, or just seeing the world thats around you right now, being with great people, doing amazing things, eating amazing food and savoring lifes little pleasures.
Remember, your time is priceless, but its free. You cant own it, but you can use it. You can spend it, but you cant keep it. Once youve lost it you can never get it back. You really do only have a short period to live. So let your dreams be bigger than your fears and your actions louder than your words. Make your time count!
7. I am honest with myself.
Be honest about whats right, as well as what needs to be changed. Be honest about what you want to achieve and who you want to become. Be honest with every aspect of your life, always. Because you are the one person you can forever count on.
Search your soul, for the truth, so that you truly know who you are. Once you do, youll have a better understanding of where you are now and how you got here, and youll be better equipped to identify where you want to go and how to get there. Read The Four Agreements.
8. I am good to those I care about.
In human relationships distance is not measured in miles, but in affection. Two people can be right next to each other, yet miles apart. So dont ignore someone you care about, because lack of concern hurts more than angry words. Stay in touch with those who matter to you. Not because its convenient, but because theyre worth the extra effort.
When was the last time you told your family and close personal friends that you loved them? Just spending a little time with someone shows that you care, shows that they are important enough that youve chosen out of all the things to do on your busy schedule to find the time for them. Talk to them. Listen to them. Understand them.
Many times its our actions, not just our words that really speak what our heart feels for another.
9. I know what unconditional love feels like.
Whether your love is towards a child, a lover, or another family member, know the feeling of giving love and not expecting anything in return this is what lies at the heart of unconditional love. Life through unconditional love is a wondrous adventure that excites the very core of our being and lights our path with delight. This love is a dynamic and powerful energy that lifts us through the most difficult times.
Love is beautiful and unpredictable. It begins with ourselves, for without self-love, we cannot know what true love can be. In loving ourselves, we allow the feeling to generate within us and then we can share it to everyone and everything around us. When you love unconditionally, it isnt because the person you love is perfect, its because you learn to see an imperfect person perfectly.
10. I have forgiven those who once hurt me.
Weve all been hurt by another person at some point or another we were treated badly, trust was broken, hearts were hurt. And while this pain is normal, sometimes that pain lingers for too long. We relive the pain over and over, letting them live rent-free in our head and we have a hard time letting go.
Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness, it causes us to miss out on the beauty of life as it happens. To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover the prisoner was you.
11. I take full accountability for my life.
Own your choices and mistakes, and be willing to take the necessary steps to improve upon them. Either you take accountability for your life or someone else will. And when they do, youll become a slave to their ideas and dreams instead of a pioneer of your own.
You are the only one who can directly control the outcome of your life. And no, it wont always be easy. Every person has a stack of obstacles in front of them. But you must take accountability for your situation and overcome these obstacles. Choosing not to is choosing a lifetime of mere existence. Read The Road Less Traveled.
12. I have no regrets.
This one is simply a culmination of the previous eleven
Follow your heart. Be true to yourself. Do what makes you happy. Be with who makes you smile. Laugh as much as you breathe. Love as long as you live. Say what you need to say. Offer a helping hand when youre able. Appreciate all the things you do have. Smile. Celebrate your small victories. Learn from your mistakes. Realize that everything is a lesson in disguise. Forgive. And let go of the things you cant control.
Seems to be good advice.
Lovely screen name.
Thanks for posting.
At almost age 50, think I’m doing ok with everything except for following my heart and intuition. Left a career behind that I loved for soemthing more “practical.” Turns out I’m miserable pursuing the “practical.” Would not advise to do this to anyone. Do what you really enjoy.
Ugh. But sometimes you do what you have to do to make a living ...
The only other regret? I didn’t have MORE children. Had 3 —wished I’d doubled that number, at least.
13. I make list of impossible goals that no one but the Creator could have fully met, yet I feel better for having made the list.
Yes, thanks for posting!
3 out of 12 isn’t bad is it?
What if your family are all Obamunists? Can you really care about them? Or forgive them?
And I’m not even being sarcastic!
How can any poor sinner have no regrets? I have never gone along with that sentiment.
I am sorry I punched somebody in the throat when I was a kid. I am sorry I took money out of my mom’s purse. I regret every mean or sinful thing I did. Someone who has no regrets has no repentance.
1. To crush your enemies.
2. See them driven before you.
3. And to hear the lamentation of their women.
Hey, brevity is the soul of wit.
This is difficult to do, but I have learned that if you forgive, you are open to a better world.
10. I have forgiven those who once hurt me.
Weve all been hurt by another person at some point or another we were treated badly, trust was broken, hearts were hurt. And while this pain is normal, sometimes that pain lingers for too long. We relive the pain over and over, letting them live rent-free in our head and we have a hard time letting go.
The smartest career move that I ever made was giving up on the “management track” and realizing that I was much more effective (and valuable) sticking with the technical work, which I’m already very good at and now am getting better.
Thus when I was given a female lead half my age, that was just fine, and it doesn’t hurt that I’m making roughly twice her salary. Along the way I had the equivalent of two job changes (one was a real change and the other was taking my California salary to Texas), so I’ve always been paid well.
Some people are cut out to work the 70 hours a week to “climb the ladder” for that outside chance of making it to the nice offices (although it’s still only a 10% chance where I work, at most, even after you getting to the first level of management...and you don’t get paid much more than the workers until you are at that level) - I’m not. I’m much happier being with my family than with my job.
at their web site they have a ton of good advice
12b. Do nothing you’ll regret or apologize for.
Yes, it’s a viable choice.
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