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Entitlement, or Why I'm a Terrible Tipper
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Posted on 11/11/2012 12:18:55 PM PST by Badabing Badablonde

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To: Badabing Badablonde
It is what it is.

If you don't like it, eat at home.

But for God's sake, quit whining like a little girl.

81 posted on 11/11/2012 1:39:51 PM PST by E. Pluribus Unum (Government is the religion of the psychopath.)
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To: Gigantor
Japanese don't tip and provide better service. I always tip. I am just saying that tips aren't necessary for good service. Often here in America, even with the tip incentive, service is poor. When comparing to other countries and cultures, even "good" service here would only be mediocre service elsewhere.

I think this country is going to hell in a handbasket and fast. I still treat everyone as best as I can muster and repay good service in kind. Even though in the back of my mind I know more than half of my fellow Americans are entitlement minded parasitic scumbags not to mention downright unamerican, I won't allow them to change who I am.

82 posted on 11/11/2012 1:41:32 PM PST by douginthearmy
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To: Badabing Badablonde

tipping is bullshit and if I feel the person is a taker ill go Galt.
and the waiter/ess works just as hard if the bill is $10 or $100, so why should the latter get ten times more.


83 posted on 11/11/2012 1:41:33 PM PST by hecht (restore Hetch-Hetchy, and screw San Francisco and Pelosi)
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To: Badabing Badablonde; Tammy8; ozaukeemom
At this point tips have no meaning- so should be done away with. Restaurants should raise wages accordingly and it would be a more honest system.

If people want tipping to go away, then restaurants will have to pay servers more and, guess what? Prices will go up.

Why should restaurants expect their guests (i.e. customers) to underwrite their payroll with tips? Tipping is an outdated relic from a bygone age. It pits restaurant clients against people they rely on for what should be a pleasant and safe dining experience. If restaurants can't earn enough with regular pricing to pay their help adequately, they should go out of business.

I simply don't go to restaurants these days if I can avoid it. There are many reasons including long waits for tables, being assigned very bad tables even with reservations (I've learned that people with reservations usually get the very worst seating); terrible uncaring service, credit card rip-off dangers, major parking hassles, etc., etc. Add tipping to the list. Even if service is awful and you don't tip, the waitperson may remember you.

In the words of Penny, the Cheesecake Factory waitress on The Big Bang Theory: "Don't piss off the people who handle your food."

84 posted on 11/11/2012 1:42:07 PM PST by Bernard Marx
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To: Badabing Badablonde
So, you in fact are a federal employee running around the country on our dime.

Union member too?,P>

How much do you pocket each year by declaring 'cash tip' on your expense reports after stiffing the waitress? Enough to pay for a few more tattoos, I'd wager.

85 posted on 11/11/2012 1:42:33 PM PST by wtc911 (Amigo - you've been had.)
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To: TheConservativeParty

Mostly problems with logistics. I usually travel alone so for safety sake I usually eat in the hotel restaurant. Safer hotels tend to be more expensive but that beats cheap hotel, walking or cabbing to dinner (added expense), renting a car (seldom cost effective for approved travel expenses), room service is ridiculous. I don’t do fast food because its seldom healthy and requires transportation. No, the safest cheapest route is low end hotels with cafes or restaurants.


86 posted on 11/11/2012 1:43:15 PM PST by Badabing Badablonde (New to the internet? CLICK HERE)
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To: Badabing Badablonde

For adequate service, I tip 15%.

If the service is better, I tip 20% or 25%.

I never stiff anyone.

What I don’t like is the ubiquitous tip jars in pizzerias dunkin donuts and similar places. I never tip thete, it’s pushy and not appropriate.


87 posted on 11/11/2012 1:44:07 PM PST by Ted Grant
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To: Badabing Badablonde

For adequate service, I tip 15%.

If the service is better, I tip 20% or 25%.

I never stiff anyone.

What I don’t like is the ubiquitous tip jars in pizzerias dunkin donuts and similar places. I never tip thete, it’s pushy and not appropriate.


88 posted on 11/11/2012 1:44:07 PM PST by Ted Grant
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To: wtc911

So you just “accept”the rules? Bend over and take it?

And i know a few people, a very few, who actually own restaurants and don’t play by the socialist rules...and their wait staff actually does a superb job....because they’re paid properly and get to keep only the tips they earn....


89 posted on 11/11/2012 1:44:43 PM PST by DrewsMum
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To: Badabing Badablonde
I have never understood why restaurant and bar owners are entitled to virtually free labor, while expecting the customer's to pay their labor costs. Why are restaurant owners exempt from minimum wage laws????

Makes no sense.

90 posted on 11/11/2012 1:44:56 PM PST by southern rock
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To: wtc911

Good grief no, not a union member.

But no longer concerned about attitudes regarding my employment. I learned long ago I’m an easy target as a fed. Deep in the trenches of Obamacare but I’ll continue to do my job as I have always done. Seen too many people attached to the gov tit to care anymore if my opinion offends anyone.


91 posted on 11/11/2012 1:49:49 PM PST by Badabing Badablonde (New to the internet? CLICK HERE)
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To: southern rock
"I have never understood why restaurant and bar owners are entitled to virtually free labor, while expecting the customer's to pay their labor costs. Why are restaurant owners exempt from minimum wage laws????"

The customer is ultimately going to pay the labor costs one way or the other. Frankly, as a restaurant customer, I appreciate the opportunity to give my waiter/waitress a performance review in the form of a tip. As a Walmart customer, a Lowe's customer, etc. I'm also paying the labor costs for the employees, I just don't have as much direct input or feedback into their job performance, short of going to a manager to praise an exceptional employee or complain about a poor one. In those cases, there's a good chance the employee may not receive any benefit for exceptional service, or face any consequences for miserable service.

92 posted on 11/11/2012 1:50:32 PM PST by Joe 6-pack (Que me amat, amet et canem meum)
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To: Badabing Badablonde
But deep down I resent her entitlement attitude that I have to pay for her minimum wage choice.

The fact that you didn't know that wait staff are paid well below minimum wage kind of undercuts your resentful argument.

You like to eat in restaurants and to be waited on. The messed up system is that the salaries of servers come mostly from tips. So if you don't tip for regular service, you are expecting everyone else to pay people to wait on you.

93 posted on 11/11/2012 1:50:45 PM PST by wideminded
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To: Ted Grant
I try to tip pretty well too TG.

What I don’t like is the ubiquitous tip jars in pizzerias dunkin donuts and similar places. I never tip thete, it’s pushy and not appropriate.

I don't like that either. They have those at places here too in Denver. Noticed one at an icecream shop over the summer...Cold Stone. It would be like tipping at McDonald's.

94 posted on 11/11/2012 1:50:55 PM PST by beaversmom
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To: Badabing Badablonde

Government per diem rates are standardized based on locale. Surely you know this. Unless you’re extravagant with your meals you will never use the full per diem. So the leftovers from your cheapskate tips go straight into your pocket.


95 posted on 11/11/2012 1:51:50 PM PST by Yardstick
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To: wideminded

“I’m very sorry the government taxes their tips, that’s f’d up. That ain’t my fault. It would seem to me that waitresses are one of the many groups the government f’s in the a on a regular basis.”


96 posted on 11/11/2012 1:53:37 PM PST by dfwgator
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To: Badabing Badablonde

My daughter is a waitress while working through college at an upscale resturaunt....

She is required to tip out 10% to the busboy’s and bartender on each total invoice, whether the customer tips or not...

She makes everything above that. Normally she does very well but there is always some cheap SOB that leaves leaves a couple of bucks on a hundred dollar meal....then she goes into her own pocket....

Additionally, she doesn’t get paid minimum wage from the resturaunt since they are exempt for having to pay that. The resturaunt lobby successfully lobbied Congress for the exemption to keep meal cost down.

A good waiter or waitress are really individual contractors working for a resturaunt. They really work for the tips, not a minimum wage choice. Christmas season she can clear $1200/week. Of course, she’s lucky in her resturaunt choice.

Plus being 23, drop dead gorgeous with a great personality doesn’t hurt the tips either. She get’s about three marriage proposals every year from customers....


97 posted on 11/11/2012 1:53:47 PM PST by nevergore ("It could be that the purpose of my life is simply to serve as a warning to others.")
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To: Badabing Badablonde

I’m sorry, but waiters and waitresses have to put up with rude behaviors by patrons, including, apparently, you.

Don’t like it? Eat in.

Bon Appetit.


98 posted on 11/11/2012 1:56:18 PM PST by sauropod (For Barack so loved the poor, he created millions more of them.)
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To: Badabing Badablonde

Traveling and eating good is so difficult.
Nearly impossible.
The last hotel I stayed in had a respectable looking restaurant attached to it. I went there one time in my 3 day stay. I brought food from home for the other meals.

This OK looking place served the most disgusting food like substances I had ever seen. The baked potato looked like it was twirled around the planet Mercury for a week. When I asked the server “was this baked today?” she sad yes but it had baked 3 times longer than it should have been. Yet they served it. I did not eat it of course. I subbed steamed broccoli. Looked OK on the top of the bowl but underneath was black slime on some of the pieces. The peas were not green but grayish green as if canned for World War 1. I was there in July. Looks like they made a lasting impression on me. Oh and the belching fat guy that sat behind my booth was a nice touch too.

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99 posted on 11/11/2012 2:01:11 PM PST by TheConservativeParty (Eric Holder to Amerika : "All ur votes belong to us." 1457 days until Nov.8,2016)
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To: beaversmom

Yes, I don’t even consider contributing to those tip jsrs. It’s not like I am being served at my seat at those places. I go to the counter, they take my order, and then give it to me and I find a seat. No reason to tip.

I also think that the usual tip rule doesn’t apply at buffets, where you get your own food and they just clear your table and get your drinks. Depending on the price, a few bucks is fair.


100 posted on 11/11/2012 2:01:11 PM PST by Ted Grant
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