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Sex on the bathroom floor?
How nice.
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You mean teen sex is not what Hollywood has made it out to be??? Get out!
/sarc
< reality >Another reason to reconsider our harsh Victorian attitude towards professional sex consultants. In civilized times, pre - 1920’s, a man-boy could seek professional help in satisfying curiosity. < /reality >
In all fairness, a distinction should be made between how a woman loses her hymen and her virginity.
In primitive cultures, though naturally about a quarter of women do not significantly bleed when their hymen is torn, many women have been beaten or killed because of it. Likewise when girls are athletic and do stretching or gymnastics, they often lose their hymen without sex.
And today, because of better nutrition, many women have a hymen that cannot be torn by sex, and for her safety and to prevent a dangerous infection, it needs to be surgically torn.
So it is best to think of the hymen in terms of an extra measure to reduce infection for girls, that has little or no bearing in the retention or loss of virginity.
As far as that goes, I am a strong believer in the southern American custom called “necking”. It was an unusually effective means of determining compatibility beyond any doubt. It involved a “slightly chaperoned” situation of a couple sitting on a comfortable couch or sofa and kissing, just kissing, for an hour. Nothing more.
It was discovered that if two people are not compatible, kissing more than 10 minutes is just painfully uncomfortable. They no longer want to kiss or even touch, and there is mutual certainty that they do not want to get married.
But if they could kiss for an hour and still like each other, it was very likely that they could get married and remain married. Because kissing is so intimate, they would be pretty certain that sex would be good, even before they had it.
So the loss of virginity on the wedding night would be far less uncomfortable or embarrassing, and remembered as a pleasant and romantic encounter.
http://articles.nydailynews.com/2010-06-03/entertainment/27066190_1_teen-girls-teen-attitudes-teens-ages This article claims 40% of teens 15-19 have had sex at least once. If most of those who regret their first time were teens, this suggests that the vast majority of teens who have sex regret it (even the boys). Who would have guessed - other than our religious leaders, our parents, conservative leaders, Sarah and Bristol Palin, and just about everyone else with common sense. Perhaps teaching “sex ed” from a “they’re going to do it so let’s hand out condoms” perspective is not the best option for our kids. How unexpected!
Notice although her friends pretended they were faddish, and Leftists made sex out to be an inconsequential every day event like eating lunch, the poor kid fell for the big lie and hurt herself.
God bless her.
I shall also note that the BOYS are not to be absolved of responsibility for their actions either. Too bad this girl didn’t have a big brother or male cousin she felt comfortable to call on for a little chat with Carlie.
Not a young maiden's dream in other words.
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