In addition, the woman isn't in her early 20's, but 34. Not "old" but older than me. While it's not as bad as a guy my age going after a 14 year old girl, it's bad enough.
Guilty. No matter what she looks like.
Where did you get that from? Not only are they harmed, they are much more likely to harm others, i.e. become perps themselves. In fact, you could argue that boys of this age are harmed even more than girls as girls are usually more mature at 14 than a 14 year old boy.
Rape is rape and I don't know of any rape laws that differentiate according to the gender of the rapist or victim.
“I’m relatively lenient when the older individual is a woman, as guys aren’t harmed as much. However, this isn’t a 17 year old looking to score, but a 14 year old who may or may not be even in high school.”
See that is the problem with our culture. It is “okay” for a 14 year old boy to get laid and I am almost sure his father is happy that his son is a “man” now. It is a double standard. That same father would not be happy if this was his 14 year old daughter.
Why is it that a teen boy having sex makes him a “man” yet a girl is either a “rape victim” or a “whore”
Why don’t those same fathers say “Yea my daughter’s now a woman” because she just got laid? It is the same sex act that just made his son a “man” after all.