Female babysitter, 20, 'got drunk and had sex with 14-year-old she was hired to look after'

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[traumer]

A female babysitter had sex with the 14-year-old she was hired to look after after plying him with alcohol, it has been reported.

Loni Bouchard, from Clinton, Connecticut, was taken into custody after the young boy's family found out about the alleged affair. The 20-year-old now faces charges that she sexually assaulted the boy last month after illegally buying him alcohol.

Authorities said they obtained a warrant after a complaint from a family member of the teenager. She then turned herself in to Southington police on Friday morning. Sergeant Lowell DePalma said the victim knew the babysitter before the alleged assault took place.

Bouchard, who has been released after posting a $1,000 bond following arraignment, faces charges of second-degree sexual assault, purchasing alcohol for a minor and two counts of risk of injury to a minor. She is being charged in two separate areas in Connecticut on similar charges.

[wideawake]

One more topic you know nothing about.

Not everyone can enjoy your level of cinta prajna, noble master.

[stuartcr]

I’m going with No damage

1 - How do you actually know this will deprive him of the proper understanding of intimacy for the rest of his life?

2 - So his first sex was with someone 6yrs older than him...she was NOT a prostitute. How is he damaged by this? Or do you just believe he’s damaged?

3 - Your actual personal experience can really only be applied to those people you grew up with, right?

4 - I bet it either wouldn’t have happened, or no one would have found out, if she had been old and ugly.

I understand completely why some of you are annoyed.

[Dead Corpse]

She's been bad. Send her to my room.

This kid is either gh3y, or failed miserably at Op-Sec.

[TigersEye]

I am a Buddhist not a Hindu. Thanks for proving me right that you’re ignorant of the subject. Thanks for attributing a statement to me that I never made. Makes you look real smart.

[wideawake]

I am a Buddhist not a Hindu. Thanks for proving me right that you’re ignorant of the subject.

Do you know what the Sanskrit name is for the sutra known to English-speaking Buddhists as "The Heart Sutra"?

Or the Sanskrit name for "The Diamond Sutra" for that matter?

Would you consider those texts to be Hindutva? Or Mahayana?

[the OlLine Rebel]

You’re not answering the question. What source do you have? Your own sordid viewpoint?

The UK article says she plied him. (I haven’t seen any other sources.)

[TigersEye]

Oh, very good. Mahayana of course. Now tell me who said that ‘denigrating women’ is one of the eleven great downfalls?

[FredZarguna]

As I said, it would likely be beyond your capacity, as your completely vacuous responses demonstrate.

1. Clearly, I do not know. I said "if he does X ..." please actually try to read a post before commenting on one.
2. If [as appears likely] his parents arranged all this, then ... again, a reading comprehension problem. If his parents paid her to "babysit" in order to acheive the result, then she very much is a prostitute. Duh.
3. Yes, my cohort is so thoroughly different from all other humans on earth that our life experiences are of no general applicability. ALL of the studies -- in which none of us to my knowledge were canvassed -- are also wrong.
4. Either deliberately missing the point of the exercise, or again, not capable of understanding it. The question asks you to examine your own psychological reaction quite independent of any public advertisement of the fact.

As I said, my posting was really not for your benefit, since the very inquiry betrayed a shallowness and disorgnaization of "thought" processes which made your ability to assimilate an answer highly questionable. Nevertheless, others following the discussion may have benefited.

You are dismissed. 'F'.

[wideawake]

Oh, very good. Mahayana of course.

I agree. So when the Diamond Sutra (or the Vajrajedika Prajnaparamita Sutra in Sanskrit) praises the state of cinta prajna or self-reflective understanding, do you consider this to be an importation of Hinduism into the text?

Or is this authentically Buddhist?

[FredZarguna]

Unfortunately for your thesis -- and for what me must conclude about your literacy -- the rapist bought alcohol for the child and "plied" him with it.

Have mommy or daddy read the article to you when they come home from work.

[TigersEye]

Let's skip your self-important thoughts about the Dharma and cut right to the bottom line. I made one post to you, making no judgments at all, and you accused me of acting above everyone. "Not everyone can enjoy your level of cinta prajna, noble master." While you have posted at least a dozen times lauding your high standards of aesthetic appreciation of women's appearance. Which has nothing at all to do with behavior.

Now who is the one acting like a holier-than-though self-righteous prig? LOL

[Juana la Loca]

Well, the first question I have is why do you need a babysitter for a 14 yr old boy?

[Juana la Loca]

Well, the first question I have is why do you need a babysitter for a 14 yr old boy?

[mad_as_he$$]

Screw Harry. ;-)

[stuartcr]

You said...’whenever a child has sex with an adult, it is damaging’...no if.

Not missing or incapable, I just don’t believe what you are saying is true.

You still haven’t said what is damaged or how one would know there is damage, so you write stuff about me...I understand completely. Thanks

[Lazamataz]

Yup, I hate promiscuity. It leads to sad children.

I LOVE promiscuity. It leads to happy Me and Miss Me.

Do you Miss Me yet? LOL

[Lazamataz]

Morals are very much lacking these days

THANK GOD.

[shotgun]

Probably went something like this:
Mom and dad return home from their night out. Mom asks the sitter if everything was okay and then paid her when she leaves. Mom then went up and checked on little Timmy and he is crying uncontrollably in his room. Mom gets concerned and asks what the problem is. Little Timmy tells her that the sitter she wouldn’t let him play his video games. Mom then asks why and if it was because he was acting bad. Little Timmy says no it was because I came to fast and she got mad when I told her to go make me a sandwich and bring me another beer...

[wideawake]

I made one post to you, making no judgments at all

Let's review, shall we?

I suspect you look like Helen Thomas warmed over.

Can we characterize that statement as eirenic?

And putting that aside, are we now agreed that cinta prajna is accurately described as a Buddhist concept?

[anglian]

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