[stuartcr]

I’m going with No damage

1 - How do you actually know this will deprive him of the proper understanding of intimacy for the rest of his life?

2 - So his first sex was with someone 6yrs older than him...she was NOT a prostitute. How is he damaged by this? Or do you just believe he’s damaged?

3 - Your actual personal experience can really only be applied to those people you grew up with, right?

4 - I bet it either wouldn’t have happened, or no one would have found out, if she had been old and ugly.

I understand completely why some of you are annoyed.

[FredZarguna]

As I said, it would likely be beyond your capacity, as your completely vacuous responses demonstrate.

1. Clearly, I do not know. I said "if he does X ..." please actually try to read a post before commenting on one.
2. If [as appears likely] his parents arranged all this, then ... again, a reading comprehension problem. If his parents paid her to "babysit" in order to acheive the result, then she very much is a prostitute. Duh.
3. Yes, my cohort is so thoroughly different from all other humans on earth that our life experiences are of no general applicability. ALL of the studies -- in which none of us to my knowledge were canvassed -- are also wrong.
4. Either deliberately missing the point of the exercise, or again, not capable of understanding it. The question asks you to examine your own psychological reaction quite independent of any public advertisement of the fact.

As I said, my posting was really not for your benefit, since the very inquiry betrayed a shallowness and disorgnaization of "thought" processes which made your ability to assimilate an answer highly questionable. Nevertheless, others following the discussion may have benefited.

You are dismissed. 'F'.