'Sugarbabe' favors negotiated infidelity

CNN ^ | 8/3/10 | Shanon Cook

[MissTed]

Could letting your man sleep with another woman help your relationship?

Author and former mistress Holly Hill thinks so.

"One of the main things that I have learned is that a woman that negotiates infidelity with her partner is far more powerful than a woman who is sitting home wondering why he's late from the office Christmas party," she says.

"It's better to walk the dog on a leash than let it escape through an unseen hole in the back fence."

Hill's memoir, "Sugarbabe" details her yearlong adventure with a series of so-called "sugar daddies." The book sold 24,000 copies in her native Australia, according to her publisher, and has just been released in the United States. Holly Hill is a pen name.

"I thought it was men that would like the book," she says, "But in fact it's women, because what it says to women is that if your man cheats on you, he still loves you, and he's probably running about average."

Allowing their men to stray is a concept that's difficult for most women to contemplate.

But Hill says that if a woman takes the time to truly examine her relationship and considers Mother Nature's unerring spell on men's libidos, she might realize that letting her boyfriend or spouse know she's OK with him having sex elsewhere is a logical way to prevent him from doing it in secret.

[MissTed]

You've come a long way, baby.

[jessduntno]

Why Sugarbabe? It sounds better than “Whore” I guess...

[equalitybeforethelaw]

Would this make a good Christmas present for the wife?

[frogjerk]

The oldest argument in existence, do evil to do good.

We all know how well that works out.

[a fool in paradise]

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“Could letting your man sleep with another woman help your relationship? Author and former mistress Holly Hill thinks so...”

[dfwgator]

It’s like the Eddie Murphy routine, “Yeah, we f-——, I f——d her, so what? I ‘make love’ to you.”

[Allthegoodusernamesaregone]

"because what it says to women is that if your man cheats on you, he still loves you,...[...]"

And to think, we always doubted the Clinton marriage when they had the answer to an honest marriage all along... (SIC)

[Scythian]

These people are sick.

[a fool in paradise]

Can't find a man of her own?

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[SERKIT]

....and he's probably running about average."

So, if I am true to my wife, that must make me above average.

[Tax-chick]

"It's better to walk the dog on a leash than let it escape through an unseen hole in the back fence."

That's what she gets for marrying a dog.

[dfwgator]

You lie down with dogs, you wake up with fleas.

[mkjessup]

Wait until the wandering mutt brings home a case of the clap, the drip, herpes or even HIV, ‘Holly Hill’ won’t have anything to say about that event.

[rockinqsranch]

Dang!!! The trash truck already picked up.

[ArrogantBustard]

She looks quite the dish ...

Petri dish, that is.

[Tax-chick]

Use the “Revolution” drops every month. Works on catz, too.

[ArrogantBustard]

wake up with fleas.

Is that the new euphemism for "crabs"?

[Kakaze]

I would imagine the reason she “lets” her spouse cheat, is because she is guilty herself.

[jagusafr]

Really disgusting - plays to the lowest common denominator. Reminds me of the foolish parents who buy their kid condoms and say, “Go ahead and have sex in our house, you’re going to have it anyway and I’d rather you were safe.”

Talk about capitulation.

Colonel, USAFR