Doesnt really matter what your defininiton is, unless you call someone else a cult. If he called your group a cult, then you need to know what he meant by cult in order to know if he was attacking your religion (where there has still not been an attack on Wesleyans or Christians in this thread).
And, you probably should have put in your post that the accuser is guessing, because you made the assumption of what it meant.
Nice qualifier; but we WERE attacked!
Someone does NOT say, in a nice way, that a person belongs to a cult.
Have you visited Salt Lake City and toured it's BIGGEST tourist attraction?
That is known in the real world aS common sense.
Something that seems to be lacking in our society today: possibly illuminated by "...it depends on what 'is' is..."