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Couple Waits Till Marriage for First Kiss
Foxnews.com ^ | 11/29/08 | AP

Posted on 11/30/2008 7:20:18 PM PST by Oyarsa

Chicagoans Melody LaLuz, 28, and Claudaniel Fabien, 30, shared their first kiss Saturday at the altar. The two teach abstinence at the city's public schools and practiced what they preached to their teenage students.

The Chicago Tribune reports that the couple had never kissed and that they had never been alone together in a house.

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TOPICS: Society
KEYWORDS: churchladies; claudanielfabien; comeonbitetheapple; firstkiss; kissesareevil; marriage; melodylaluz; moralabsolutes; notbuyingit; truelove
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To: Oyarsa

Shomer nagia


21 posted on 11/30/2008 7:54:06 PM PST by freedom9
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To: Fichori

Ok wise guy....how many couples practice this?

Anything less than 3% is extreme.

They are EXTREME!


22 posted on 11/30/2008 7:54:35 PM PST by Eagle Eye (Libs- If you don't have to play the rules then neither do we...THINK ABOUT IT!)
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To: Yo-Yo

What a beautiful and romantic photo. This is what love looks like.


23 posted on 11/30/2008 7:54:42 PM PST by ElayneJ
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To: toothfairy86

Yep, that’s an excellent version of Pride and Prejudice; almost 100% faithful to the book, which stems from a time when first kisses at the altar were far more common than they are today.


24 posted on 11/30/2008 7:54:50 PM PST by Oyarsa
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To: Hildy

While I won’t question their determination, there are certain things I want to know about the woman I am going to eventually divorce before marrying her, and how she kisses is one of them.


25 posted on 11/30/2008 7:55:08 PM PST by MAD-AS-HELL (How does one win over terrorists? KILL them with UNKINDNESS)
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To: Oyarsa

I wish them well.

That said, kissing is not sex and their behavior is bizzaro. Not kissing isn’t a sign of purity or following God’s plan. It’s an aberration IMHO.


26 posted on 11/30/2008 7:55:08 PM PST by Drango (A liberal's compassion is limited only by the size of someone else's wallet.)
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To: MAD-AS-HELL

I haven’t yet.


27 posted on 11/30/2008 7:55:42 PM PST by Fichori (I believe in a Woman's right to choose, even if she hasn't been born yet.)
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To: Oyarsa

No one may be “demanding” that standard of others, but given that they teach an abstinence-only class, one could make the argument that they’re trying to present this strangness as normal to their students.


28 posted on 11/30/2008 7:56:11 PM PST by ravensandricks (Jesus rides beside me. He never buys any smokes.)
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To: Dawn531

I agree more power to them. But you also have to question that if these same people are so determined not to kiss, they will also be determined to keep a marriage going even if they are miserable in it. Not saying all are miserable but the same logic applies.


29 posted on 11/30/2008 7:56:26 PM PST by MAD-AS-HELL (How does one win over terrorists? KILL them with UNKINDNESS)
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To: Yo-Yo

Thanks for posting their photo, Yo-Yo.


30 posted on 11/30/2008 7:56:45 PM PST by Oyarsa
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To: freedom9

To my knowledge, Shomer nagia was not a factor in this decision.


31 posted on 11/30/2008 7:58:31 PM PST by Oyarsa
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To: Oyarsa

My former roommate and his wife did the same thing out of a commitment to purity.


32 posted on 11/30/2008 7:59:29 PM PST by Kevmo (Palin/Hunter 2012)
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To: Fichori

you haven’t found a significant other or you haven’t kissed your S/O yet?


33 posted on 11/30/2008 7:59:32 PM PST by MAD-AS-HELL (How does one win over terrorists? KILL them with UNKINDNESS)
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To: Kevmo

Were they cool about it or did they turn it into an attention-grabbing, showboating thing?


34 posted on 11/30/2008 8:00:37 PM PST by ravensandricks (Jesus rides beside me. He never buys any smokes.)
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To: ravensandricks

I think one would have to be stretching to make that argument.

I don’t think any of their students will walk away with the assumption that it is “normal”.

But I think that they will know that should any of them make that same commitment, their role models (and all persons in authority are defacto role models for young people) have done so.


35 posted on 11/30/2008 8:03:06 PM PST by Oyarsa
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To: MAD-AS-HELL

LOL!

I haven’t dated, married, or kissed anyone.

Significant or otherwise.


36 posted on 11/30/2008 8:03:40 PM PST by Fichori (I believe in a Woman's right to choose, even if she hasn't been born yet.)
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To: MAexile

You’re welcome.


37 posted on 11/30/2008 8:04:09 PM PST by Oyarsa
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To: PERKY2004

Congratulations. That’s not an easy decision to make either.


38 posted on 11/30/2008 8:04:53 PM PST by Oyarsa
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To: Joann37

Amen. God bless them both.


39 posted on 11/30/2008 8:05:12 PM PST by Oyarsa
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To: Oyarsa

In the end, it’s their lives and their decision, and I respect that and am in no position to judge what works for them. I just find nothing particularly laudible about this.


40 posted on 11/30/2008 8:05:15 PM PST by ravensandricks (Jesus rides beside me. He never buys any smokes.)
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