Dont think for a second that I’m saying I approve of it in any way shape or form.
I would like to echo that sentiment. In my discussion on this topic I would like to make it known that I DON’T approve of the behavior, either. Not as a Christian whose Lord has made it abundantly clear that this is NOT normal behavior.
I do wish to examine the WHYs though. Whether it be a chemical imbalance, or a side-effect of abuse as a child - if it’s something people can start to understand, then it’s something that we could HELP others with... I would imagine they would be immensely happier in their lives if they actually dealt with the problems in their lives instead of creating more problems for themselves, socially, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
It’s the same with those who have another mental illness. You can’t just give them all a pill and make it go away... They need counseling, and they need to understand how their actions relate to their past is all... And, I think that’s what is going on - as I said before - at least with all the lesbians I’ve even known well enough to broach the subject with.