I am breaking my vow to never return to FR because I wanted to tell you personally that I am praying for you.
May God hold you in the palm of his hand and keep you safe. May your doctors have wisdom. May you have peace of mind and may your family & friends be a source of strength for you in this difficult time.
The first words I ever posted at FR were these:

Toby, you have many, many friends praying for you. You are such a dear, sweet, kind man and you mean so much to so many of us. I have missed you so much!
I will pray for you each & every day.
p.s. Also wanted to let you know that Ev (my son) will be deploying again in about 11 months, to Iraq. He won't be training in Mississippi this time though....Arkansas instead. I'm sure it won't be NEARLY as nice.:-)
Oh, and................

Here's some grits for you.:-)

Mozie, you have touched my heart. Thank you so much. I know you were addressing Toby, but your words are helpful to me as well.
Sorry I missed you..
ML, Remember that I pledged to pray for Ev everyday of his enlistment. Know that he is prayed for each day and will deploy to Iraq with prayers covering him.