"No I will NOT kiss 'it', Bill! I don't care WHAT BS-NBC says!!!"
B.S.
“When Mr. Right shows up, however, women ditch society-imposed gender roles, warming up to sexual pleasures, the researchers found.”
The difference is, women react to Mr Right, men react to Ms Right Now. A lifetime of experience and two marriages has taught that surveys of college kids produce results wildly at variance with life over 30.
From what I have been reading on the internet lately it seems that a lot of the women that do want it the most are employed as elementary and junior high teachers and are partial minors.
BS
Mens sex drive is mostly physical. Men need sex like they need food. Love without sex leaves then unfulfilled.
Womens sex drive is mostly emotional. Women need sex like they need love. Sex without love leaves them unfulfilled.
It seems obvious that if a couple share enough love and enough sex they will be a long way towards a good relationship. If the basic differences aren't acknowledged there will be little understanding.
I think women have the easier task. If a women gives her mate as much sex as he wants, even if she is "faking" her own desire for sex that often, the man will be happy. It is very difficult, however, for a man to "fake" the emotional responses that many women desire from their mate, even if he wants to please her.
Take care of each other and celebrate the differences, even if you know you'll never really understand each others "drives".
I guess believers of that myth have never seen "Girls Gone Wild".
I understand that, in most marriages, couples favor the doggie position: he sits up and begs, she rolls over and plays dead.
Sex? What’s sex?
I believe this is true. It’s not the amount, it’s the quality of the experience. In general, women hold out for quality (ambiance, venue, person, emotional connection, etc.) Women don’t want less sex, they want less mediocre sex.
There is nothing wrong with having standards.
Busts? Who wrote this headline? :0)
I am reminded of the movie Annie Hall. Woody Allen and Diane Keaton are lovers and are at a psychiatrist and the doctor asks Woody how often they have sex? Woody says almost never, only 3 times a week. In the next scene Diane is asked the same question and she says all the time, 3 times a week.
The frequency of sex goes down with the length of marriage. Men get bored/tired and women get headaches. For anyone married over 5 years, be happy if you can get it once per week.
My wife loves to talk on the phone during sex.
Last night she called me from Chicago.
Old Rodney Dangerfield joke—still cracks me up.