Posted on 05/25/2007 4:28:35 PM PDT by Grizzled Bear
This creature had been part of my life for almost 17 years. He wasn't exactly a normal cat. He was built like a medium sized dog. When he was healthy he weighed over 20 pounds. Today he weighed just over 10 pounds and was skin and bone.
He had been sick on and off for about a year. Antibiotics helped but he never completely recovered. This morning he really looked bad. We called the vet and took him in. I already expected the worst. The vet said his temp was 92 F (normal is about 101). I expected him to have a fever because was looking for cool places to lie down.
It was so hard but I asked the Vet to put him to sleep. The Dr reassured me that this was the best choice, with treatments he might have another week or two and either be in pain or doped up. I said to do it and dear God it hurts. My wife and I held him and stroked his fur until long after he was gone. His cheek rested on my hand the entire time. At about 12:45 this afternoon he passed away.
Through tears, Mrs Bear said she never thought the loss of a cat would be so painful. When she first "met" him they had trouble getting along. Before getting to know her; he never liked anybody but me. After some time they warmed up to each other. Today she's heartbroken. To be honest, so am I.
Whenever she would sing he would run up to her, sit at attention and listen to her. She asked if animals go to heaven and if we will see him again. The best I could do was a verse from Ecclesiates 3:21.
He traveled with me from the US to Europe and back. Whether I was in the livingroom watching a DVD, studying at the kitchen table or FReeping; he was always right next to me. I keep expecting to turn and see him in his usual places.
Thanks for listening.
I’m sorry to hear that. I’ve lost several pets over the years, some of which brought me to tears.
The fact that you loved your pet and are grieving is a credit to you, not a sign of weakness. Your sorrow shows all of us that you treated him very well.
Be happy that he shared so many happy years with you. You’ll miss him, but eventually you’ll only remember the good times.
I wish I knew what breed he was. Someone told my wife he was a Maine Coone but he didn’t look like any that I had seen in pictures.
He had long hair on his flanks, a smooth short fur on top of his head, a bushy tail and a face that looked a little like a lynx. His mouth looked a little like a blunt dog muzzle. His top was black (tinged with reddish gray as he got older) with a white bib and white front “socks.”
If I had the talent I’d try to post a picture.
Even if I find the breed I don’t think I’ll find another like that old fella.
We know what you are going through. We lost our beloved pooch and it was like the world came to an end, But we went to the pound an got a look—a—like who is completely different. Our pee wee is a real nut case who completely filled the void.
You’ll see your beloved pet at Rainbow ridge.
I know it was the right thing to do but it doesn’t make it hurt any less.
My baby boy Min-Pin Phudd is showing your kitty around Heaven and it is glorious!
A picture of your cat would be appreciated so we will know him when we get there.
I really don’t have the talent to post one.
He sounds like a great one.
My heart aches for you. They are not just cats (or dogs), they really become family members.
I’m sorry to hear of your loss. Truly, our pets become family members. You did the right thing.
Been there.
I feel for you and yours.
JJ
I stood by your bed last night, I came to have a peep.
I could see that you were crying, You found it hard to sleep.
I purred to you softly as you brushed away a tear,
“It’s me, I haven’t left you, I’m well, I’m fine, I’m here.”
I was close to you at breakfast, I watched you pour the tea,
You were thinking of the many times, your hands reached down to me.
I was with you at the shops today, Your arms were getting sore.
I longed to take your parcels, I wish I could do more.
I was with you at my grave today, You tend it with such care.
I want to reassure you, that I’m not lying there.
I walked with you towards the house, as you fumbled for your key.
I gently put my paw on you, I smiled and said “it’s me.”
You looked so very tired, and sank into a chair.
I tried so hard to let you know, that I was standing there.
It’s possible for me, to be so near you everyday.
To say to you with certainty, “I never went away.”
You sat there very quietly, then smiled, I think you knew...
in the stillness of that evening, I was very close to you.
The day is over... I smile and watch you yawning
and say “goodnight, God bless, I’ll see you in the morning.”
And when the time is right for you to cross the brief divide,
I’ll rush across to greet you and we’ll stand, side by side.
I have so many things to show you, there is so much for you to see.
Be patient, live your journey out... then come home to be with me.
He got out of the apartment one day (he loved sneaking out the door) and the building staff had to call me at work, because he ran away from all of them, even rode the elevator to another floor.
I am so sorry about your kitty.
No, nor should you. He'll never be replaced, but I hope you'll consider a new "baby" in your life. I don't know if he was your only cat, but even if he wasn't I'm sure there's another wonderful cat out there waiting to have a loving home. Please consider getting another one, and don't wait too long. Believe it or not, having another warm loving baby will help your healing process.
At first she didn’t seem to notice but now she’s looking in his favorite places. :*(
Regarding pictures (or images), some people have paintings done from pictures as a memorial and a lasting reminder of their dear friend.
I'm sorry to hear about your cat, this thread made me cry and I don't cry often. I've lost a few cats over the years, you almost never notice them until they're gone. They do annoying things like shed, lay on your head while you're sleeping and claw the furniture and carpets; yet we miss them dearly when they're gone.
Kharas
You are a good man Eaker. Thank you.
No, you are.
Thank you for looking out for me and our country.
I and mine salute you.
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