how can we know a fake from the real thing? i have been conned by the best, or i am just too stupid to see the con.
I honestly dont know how we can tell or where to look. And I am sorry to hear what you went through. I hope I did not offend you.
I think you can't really look for it. If it happens, it happens. But if you go looking for it, the odds are you're going to accept something that isn't really right because you're looking for anything. At least that's what I think. I've tried to stop worrying about it. Whatever happens is up to God. That's really hard to do but whenever I specifically went looking for a boyfriend, I never found the right guy.