I honestly dont know how we can tell or where to look. And I am sorry to hear what you went through. I hope I did not offend you.
it takes way more than that to offend me!! :;grin::
you are talking to someone who gets into food fights for fun!! (see earlier in the thread?) you weren't scared i would toss that "Ninja throwing disc" at you, were ya? if it did, it would miss cuz i took a bite out of it first! LOL