[rzeznikj at stout]

...except that's how i have to think

one of my jobs and my chosen trade both require it...8^)

[DollyCali]

trust me.. it can be modified. NOT CHANGED Permanently but when the situation arises, altered.

Part of growth is knowing WHO you are.. seeing perhaps the shortcomings & then doing what is necessary to compensate.

It is necessary to do this IF you want a hot, loving relationship. A man does not need fame, money or influence to have & keep a wonderful woman. He needs to see HER needs & meet them. Most women's basic needs are simple.

See who they are. Love who they are. Brag on who they are.

Praise them, thank them, Massage them (yea, a 2 hour massage w/o any further "demands" goes A LONG WAY), honor them..

you will get triple in response.. will fall in your bed exhausted from excitement, love (and yes sex)

so very few men ever learn this most simple lesson re: women.

They see them as greedy etc.. but the women go this route when they are deprived their most basic need to be LOVED & APPRECIATED.

[Kate of Spice Island]

Howdy!

How is everyone tonight?

[ilovew]

Does this help any? ;)